Ok i take it that me and my girl are no longer togther. i baed this on the fact that i haven't talked to her in 5 days. she won't answer my calls, or voicemails. i sent her an email but she rarely uses the computer so i don't think she got it. anyway everything was going good. no problems no arguing. its completly out of the blue. i don't mind if she is brekaing up with me but u figure she'd at elats have the curtesy to call me and tell me or even shoot over an email. why would a women do that? have any of u done this before? i never have. i think its really mean. and if she sin't breaking up with me, i'm gonna leave her anyway just for doing this.
2006-11-22 05:43:36 · 9 answers · asked by DA-LL /Male/ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nothing in her life is stopping her from answering. i talked to her on friday. saturday she went out partying for her b-day, sunday i don't know where she was, i called her house monday and her sister said she went to teh movies with her other sister, on tuesday she went to mexicali caiuse i called her house and thats where they said she went. i asked her sister if everything was ok and she said yes.
2006-11-22 05:50:44 · update #1
FYI- she doens't have text messaging on her phone, i left her a voicemail and had her sister tell her when she got home, caus ei really needed her support yesterday. that was a huge tramatic event in my life invloving a death, and she wsn't there for me. and lets say she didn't check her voicemaila nd here sister forgot to tell her, guess what that shows how little she cared that she knew i left her a voicemail but didn't check it. sorry its not petty stuff. i don't deserve to be treated this way
2006-11-22 05:55:15 · update #2
Have you thought for a split second that maybe there's something incredibly traumatic going on in her life right now?
Perhaps a family member just died, or even SHE'S in the hospital, and can't answer her phone? Maybe her phone isn't receiving messages correctly?
There are lots of possibilities other than she just doesn't want to be with you anymore.
Give her some time, then call her again. If she still doesn't answer, write her off as a lost cause. No one should be treated like that.
Good Luck :)
2006-11-22 05:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by A Wells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay coming from a female maybe something bad happened on her end where she was too embarassed to talk to you about it. Maybe she just does not want to hurt you (anymore) so she just abruptly stop talking to you. Either way you should have stopped by her house to see if she was okay and to see what your status is as a couple.
I have done this several times about 8 - 10 years ago and my reasons (which may be differ from other females) were I no longer wanted to deal with that person due to the fact they were immature or I thought they would have gone crazy if I broke it off in front of them. That there would be classified as immature, but females tend to feel more guilty than men do, so they just disappear.
2006-11-22 13:51:03 · answer #2 · answered by no 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a heartless way for a girl to do that, but sometimes its because she doesnt know how to tell you. the best thing to do is maybe send a text saying that you understand its over and wish her well (even if you dont!) and do your best to go out and enjoy single life. hope this helps!
2006-11-22 13:48:10 · answer #3 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 15 I was dating this guy who did the exact thing to me. He just stopped calling and I never heard from him again. Everytime I tried to call him he would never answer. After two weeks I figured it was over. My advice to you is if you know one of her friends call and just say hey I havent heard from my gf in awhile, whats going on or just ask one of her friends to tell them to call you. Either way I know how you feel this situation absolutely sucks.
2006-11-22 13:51:47 · answer #4 · answered by cutelil_bubble21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never done this for no reason. There was always a fight or something that occurred beforehand.
2006-11-22 13:48:21 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she 'doesn't want to hurt your feelings" so she'll avoid you and hope you get the hint and go away. (The truth is, she doesn't want herself to feel uncomfortable- it has nothing to do with sparing you feelings.)
2006-11-22 13:45:48 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so all u provin is dat u will break up wit her over childish crap n she might have been busy so try again later
2006-11-22 13:48:40 · answer #7 · answered by lilmomma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love her, let go of her, if she chooses to come back, that all relies on your judgement
2006-11-22 13:46:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just doesnt wanna face up to it
2006-11-22 13:48:07 · answer #9 · answered by foreveryoung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋