Why is it such a turn-off? Also, why is it guys want to try and "pick you up" once you are in a relationship? I was just wondering. Thanks!
2006-11-22 05:38:05 · 8 answers · asked by The one who knows 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ways a guy can tell if a girl/woman is desparate...she is overly aggressive and never says no to anything, she calls too much...she emotionally pours out all her feelings toward you before the two of you are considering even dating....those are signs....I dont want to make this sound primative but guys usually prefer to be the predator we like the chase it gives us a feeling of conquest...(we are weird like that..).....and to your 2nd question....For us it's a competition (sometimes within ourselves)...so we can blow up our ego...unfortunately it may not always be about you....(we men suck like that sometimes...sorry)
2006-11-22 05:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's a game of cat and mouse to some, they like the chase but don't want any part of it once they win.
It's human nature to want what you can't have, that's why woman have been able to win men over by playing hard to get for centuries. Once they give in the game is over.
Most people grow out of that, but some never do they don't grow up.
If they stalk you or smother you they are most likely desperate. Be careful of people like that. If not desperate they are control freaks and you don't need that in your life either.
Good Luck!
2006-11-22 13:49:42 · answer #2 · answered by unknown friend 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i can answer the last. Some guys don't want the responsibilities that go with having an exclusive g/f. If you are in a relationship then the gift-buying etc are not his duties
2006-11-22 13:42:09 · answer #3 · answered by Miz Enriques 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
since i am not or have ever been desperate, i can't answer that
because no one likes a clinger or someone who is too easy
because they want something they can't have..they are competitive by nature..that's the way the ball bounces
2006-11-22 13:40:19 · answer #4 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you are desperate you look needy and pathetic. that is not to much fun. when you are happy and glowing ( like when you are in a relationship) guys will notice you and want you.
2006-11-22 13:43:21 · answer #5 · answered by nicole 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
becasue they want a girl, that can be herself and not so desperate to be with him, they r always following, and trying to talk to, wont leave alone, always wispering stupid stuff to u, and trying dumb pick up lines on u.
2006-11-22 13:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They laugh more than they should, I do not know the last question...
2006-11-22 13:42:17 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think because men like the competition
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2006-11-22 13:42:09 · answer #8 · answered by john doe 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋