my friends say i am fat but my mom says that i am not what is the true?

Answer 1

Typically parents will say certain things to us because they don't want to damage our self esteem and confidence....sometimes our friends don't necessarily tend to think along those lines....so it's a good chance that your friends might be right.....but dont let that stop you in thinking positively about yourself....I'm sure you have great qualities in reference to your looks and character that stand out....

Answer 2

Sweetheart, why are your friends calling you fat? Are these really people you want to spend time with? Someone can tell you that you don't look quite your best in a particular outfit without demeaning you. Perhaps your first course of action should be to find people who respect and like you for who you are.

Answer 3

Go to the doctor. They'll tell you.

You can find out if your BMI is in an acceptable range and if your body fat % is as well.

If they find you are okay, it may just be that you are wearing clothes that are unflattering.

Or that your friends have a distorted view of things.

Answer 4

who cares if your fat the question is do you feel healthy? if you do then dont worry about what anyone thinks this world has put way to much into wt.. you have to be a size 3 to be considered skinny and then if you so much as gain one pound your fat.... then thoes same people are the ones who talk about people making themselves puke... no wonder so many young girls are dying of this.. there is way to much pressure to be thin

Answer 5

Height? Weight? M/F?

Answer 6

I would imagine your mother would sugar coat when your friend wont. You didn't say how tall you are and how much you weigh.

Answer 7

Who cares what other people think. The real question is.....how do you feel? That is all that matters.

Answer 8

WHATEVER U R WHO CARES JUST BE HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY ETC U KNOW WHAT I MEAN!!!!!!!