I wasn't attracted to him or anything but sometime in March one of our co workers told me that this guy was interested in me. I was really shocked. At first I was just trying to be polite with him and he would give me drops home. But now I think I've fallen for him and that he might not be interested anymore. i don't work there anymore so we don't see each other that much. He only ever texts me and that's like once a week and his standard line is "How u goin?" He says he's busy with work and school but i think if he was really interested he would make time for me/us.What should I do???????
2006-11-22 04:59:35 · 17 answers · asked by Narissa J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Haha your sweet. He still likes you. If you show intrest his intrestst will pick up again. He sounds shy so you may have to make the first move. Guys can be realy thikc when it comes to hints this line will work will let him know what to do: "I realy like you, i think your a great guy, We should go out on a date sometime dont you think?"
Say "DATE" and it will set the mood. It sounds like you two have a good future i wish you the best.
2006-11-22 05:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by Low 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look just a note never get involved with anyone at work. Really about 99% of these type of relationships end in total failure. Your life will be so much easier if you do this.
2006-11-22 13:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just shy to make the first move, you never showed him that you were interested in him so he never stepped up his game. If you want to be with this guy you are going to have to be straight forward with him. give it a try! you never know what could happen.
but if you wait too long he might find another girl!
2006-11-22 13:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by millagorilla@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've already given him the 'polite' cold shoulder then he's not going to keep coming back for more. It's your move now - ask him out on a date, but don't waste any time.
2006-11-22 13:01:59 · answer #4 · answered by mark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should just tell him that you like him. Then he will have a reason to talk to you all the time, and you both can make plans to do stuff together when he's not busy.
2006-11-22 13:04:03 · answer #5 · answered by Ton Ton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HIM OUT ALREADY. if he still texts you then he still has interest. dont come on strong by excessivly trying to communicate. but make a date and kiss him. take the initiative. If he says hes busy say ok when then. thats all.
2006-11-22 13:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by aligrespeq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably feels like you rejected him in the past. Since your good friends with him ask him to meet you for coffee. Tell him that you like him and would like to go out with him be direct. If he says no then you have to accept that he has moved on but if he really likes you he will go out with you.
2006-11-22 13:05:24 · answer #7 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well why dont you work on it yourself?
guys dont always have to be the ones to do stuf ffor you...send him a text sometime asking him if he would like to go out sometime to catch up or something...do you get were i am going with this?..its just going to make your relationship with him wither if one of you dont get the curage to do something about it
2006-11-22 13:03:43 · answer #8 · answered by dixie_rebel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you didnt act interested before so now he probably doesnt realize you are into him why dont you try telling him you like him more then just friends and want to see where it goes. see waht he says.
2006-11-22 13:02:44 · answer #9 · answered by becca_2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him that you're interested in him, if you truly are. You didn't seem to be until you found out that he might be interested in you. That's weird.
2006-11-22 13:01:54 · answer #10 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋