that his mom was leasing and paying for us. I agreed to help out with some of the rent. All the while that we lived there, my boyfriend did not have a job, and his car broke down (which he said is my fault bc I didn't have a car then,and he took me alot of places). We fought everyday, about little and big issues alike. I told him weeks before I moved that I was very depressed, and that I wanted to move out.. we ignored our fights for several weeks, and after I threw him a huge bday party and gave him a $300 gift, we started fighting again daily, because of his lack of appreciation, his friends trying to advise our relationship when it wasn't asked etc.. believe me, I did my share of wrong things. When started fighting worse when money problems arrised(his mom pays everything for him!! So one weekend, I decided to buy a car, and he was mad bc he decided not to come, and he couldnt believe I still bought a car without his consent/presence.. I arrived to our house, we fought and I packed my things and left.. I felt bad leaving, but he didn't stop me. He is claiming that I used him for his car/house and now that I have a car i left.. He has only held a job for six months out of his life and I was tired of being the breadwinner.. I left for mental sanity but all his friends say I should have offered to pay for his car to get fixed before I bought mine.. who is right?
2006-11-21
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