2006-11-21 04:56:03 · 18 answers · asked by ccc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope. I wasn't in love with my first before I had sex and I wasn't in love with him after we had sex. Actually, I detest him. Firsts are usually something and someone you'd like to forget about for the rest of your life.
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2006-11-21 04:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by Jenn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessary. Some people just prefer to try it out for their first time for experience or curiousity. But if u fall in love first before u have sex, then yes, u will fall madly in love all over again. It is not the point of virgins or not. It is about the feeling, the love and the emotional attachments towards the person. If u never loved the person, u will hate him for taking away ur virginity after that.
2006-11-21 13:05:17 · answer #2 · answered by ReginaMichelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,
You really should be madly in love with ANYONE you are having sex with.
Odd question, you expect a person to give you their soul and be shocked when they fall in love with you.
Sounds like an abusive relationship right from the start.
Peace, and Stick with the bar bait.
2006-11-21 13:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends on the person. Were they planning on waiting to get married first before sex? Have you told them you loved them? Are you friends with bennies or in a relationship? What are the circumstances?
2006-11-21 12:58:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the time, yes. Its not just a physical connection - it's emotional and spiritual. The emotional and spiritual part dies down alot though, as we have sex with more people.
2006-11-21 13:03:18 · answer #5 · answered by stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, depends on the person.
My wife jokes that it is the reason I'm so in love with her.
2006-11-21 12:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.. It's really not a good idea unless you plan on being with them forever...
2006-11-21 13:00:35 · answer #7 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking this question, it sounds a bit sick, you know? Maybe you should give some more details....
2006-11-21 12:59:00 · answer #8 · answered by krisi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes she may be using you more than you think. Flexing her muscle for the real deal
2006-11-21 13:00:09 · answer #9 · answered by loanbrokerprograms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have thought that came BEFORE the sex --- its the main reason to have it (sex that is)
2006-11-21 12:59:59 · answer #10 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋