The guy that I am seeing wants to cook me dinner. He is a nice man but I am not into him at all. He is getting ahead of himself in the relationship talking about marriage and everything although we have only gone out maybe 5 times in 2 months. Anyway he wants me to come to his out and eat dinner but I do not like eating at people's houses that have pets. He has a cat and 2 dogs and although he says that his house is clean, most people with multiple animals almost always have a nasty stinky house and I do not wish to go. Am I wrong for not wanting to eat his house?
2006-11-21 04:54:40 · 16 answers · asked by Cheryl J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
His house is probably real nasty and disgusting. All people who have animals in the house are nasty. They allow there cats and dogs to eat off of the food and feed it to u. They also always the animals to walk on the counters and tables very disgusting. Don't go and drop him. Hes probably nasty.
2006-11-21 06:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think you are wrong this guy seems like he is moving too fast and you need to just tell him how you feel and take thing slower untill you are more comftorable with him. as far as the stinky house with pets. some are but i have 2dogs, 1 bird, 2ferretsand fish and my house is not stinky at all people dont even know i have animals untill i introduce them. but most peoples houses do stink because they dont clean enough animals are alot of maintenance in your home i know i clean all day. i am a stay at home mom. anyway good luck rachel
2006-11-21 13:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to take a long look at your relationship with this man. If you really like him, you need to go see his house and eat a meal with him there. Don't assume the worst, but be prepared for it. You might be pleasantly surprised at how well he keeps his animals and how clean the home is. And you might really enjoy the experience. If you don't, then make a decision about your relationship with him. Careful, don't hurt his feelings, if things are bad, just grin an bear it, and once you leave, you really don't have to go back. But give it a chance , it might be great.
2006-11-21 13:06:17 · answer #3 · answered by loufedalis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to go and eat at his place. thats your choice. But you need to be honest with him about the relationship. You can not keep seeing him as boyfriend and girlfriend if your not into him that way. You need to tell him how you feel. Before anything else happens.
2006-11-21 13:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by bleedingdragonsrose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u r NOT into him stop leading him on!!! U r not wrong for the way u want to think. I have multiple pets tho and my house, u cannot tell.
2006-11-21 12:58:15 · answer #5 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not wrong for that but it sounds to me that your not really into this guy at all. If you are not then let him know that you just want to be friends. Sound like he likes you a lot and later he can get hurt if you don't put a stop to this. Don't lead him on if you are not serious.
2006-11-21 13:10:24 · answer #6 · answered by heygirl0222 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the question of whether to eat dinner at his house is secondary. I think you should be more clear regarding the relationship.
2006-11-21 12:57:04 · answer #7 · answered by sandy_in_bc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not wrong for not wanting to eat at his house. I think you're wrong for leading him on. Dont let him get hurt. Would you like someone to lead you on?? Its better to hurt him with the truth than to hurt his heart with lies. I hope you do the right thing.
2006-11-21 13:02:31 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong in being true to your feelings. Politely refuse his invitation and slowly ease him off your leg. I wouldn't eat his house either.
2006-11-21 12:59:55 · answer #9 · answered by DelVinci 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should probably cut it off now.
I mean I wouldn't go to his house if you are uncomfortable...so 'No, its not wrong of you'.
However, he sounds a bit creepy and needy. Go find someone else and cut this one loose.
2006-11-21 12:58:39 · answer #10 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋