whats the best way to get over a broken heart?

Answer 1

Lots of good answers here.

* Keeping yourself busy is a very good thing to do, because there is nothing worse than sitting around all alone, 'stewing' over times you could be spending together with your ex. If you can keep yourself busy, then your life won't feel so 'empty' and purposeless.

* The next time you are in a relationship, try to do things with different friends other than your boyfriend. That way, you have your 'own life' and don't fall in to the trap of doing everything together. That way, if you do break up, and your boyf isn't around any more, you won't be absolutely lost, because other areas of your life will be very active, and you will have a good 'network' of friends who can help you, and also stop you from feeling lonely and unloved.

* Remember that you probably had bad times as well as good; you have also let go of them. It's called a break-up because something was 'broken.'

* This may sound strange, but talk to understanding male friends too. They may be able to give different advice to 'supportive' girls (especially if any anger comes out and the girls may just say something like " Oh forget him, let's go out! ")

* Revenge: you may feel like doing this, but it gets very messy. Don't go there!

* Rebounds: They are very tempting, but try not to. You need to work on your self-esteem and your self-confidence first. Rebounds don't usually last that long, and if and when they do end, you will be back to sqaure one; feeling like you did before, and this can really shatter your self-confidence.

* Rebuilding your self-confidence: might be hard at first, but try as often as possible to think good things about yourself. Remind yourself of your positive qualities. If you have trouble thinking of any, get a trusted friend to write some down for you. There more you think good things about yourself, the more it will sink into your mind, and be 'recycled' as behaviour and feelings. Once you have worked on your self-confidence a bit, you can then go and play the 'dating game' again, and that can be a lot of fun.
See this as an opportunity to do some 'personality surgery.' Now you can be your own person again, and make some changes you needed to make. You can start creating a new self-image, and this too can be very fun and exciting.

* Please! Don't get into any man-hating or ball-breaking. I know it's tempting to say " all men are b*stards, they are all a waste of space " but there are 3 billion men in the world. One may have hurt you badly, but that's one guy. There are many others out there who will treat you well, and who are probably looking for someone just like you. Hope I've been some help to you.

Good luck

Answer 2

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Answer 3

I don't think anyone can get over a broken heart. I think you can patch it as much as you want but it will still be broken. The thing you have to understand is it will always be broken but you can move on. You can never forget that your heart has been broken but you can put it away in your mind for now. You can do fun things to keep your mind off of it. You can watch comedy movies so that you can laugh. You can meet really hot mates. You can do all of these things and you will eventually find a place in your head to store the facts. You may even think that you have forgotten about your broken heart but really you haven't you have just moved on and that is all you can do.

Answer 4

Remind yourself why you are not together. If it was perfect you wouldn't have a broken heart. Don't just focus on the good times, whenever you start thinking how great it was remind yourself of the bad times. It helps. I left my bf last night because he won't get a job and I'm pregnant. I want nothing more than to run back to him but I have to remind myself every few minutes of why I left. It helps the stomach pains and self doubt.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

There's no best way to get over an ex.The healing process takes its own course.i suggest you not to force your heart to move past your ex.coz if you do,you will realise that you dont have ultimate control over your heart and mind.when i broke up with my ex,i wanted to move on instantly,and forced my mind,but this made my situation worse.i went crazy by trying to control and stop thinking about him.But i realised that forgeting and letting go is somethin beyond my control.so i decided to accept all the feelings and thoughts as they are.everytime i accepted feelings,i was deeply hurt,journey of walking past my ex was extremely painful,but this pain was better than avoiding or controlling feelings.Best thing to do is to go where your mind takes,this will cause plenty of pain,until one day that your tears will become sweet than bitter.i didnt take any short cuts to avoid pain as i know its impossible.let your pain flow as tears.bring it all out,dont preserve anything inside,let it flow.learn the art of accepting pain willingly.One day you will find yourself relieved and detached from your ex's strings coz all the feelings are out of your heart and mind,they will no longer exist inside to hurt or threaten you in anyway.try to engage yourself in activities that fascinate you.hobbies or sports somethin that may help you forget about love and dating.I tried what i typed above,which hurt a lot in the beginning of the process,but now that i have nothin left inside to hurt,everything flew as a river in the form of tears,i feel so relieved and peaceful.i am no more attached to my ex.i am free.i am extremely happy.Good luck!.

Answer 7

time. Im going through it right now my gf and I broke up we still talk tho so its hard on both of us. But the only thing u really can do is to keep busy. spend time with family and friends and start dating again once your ready. Remember if its meant to be it will come back but if it doesn't it was never meant to be. You'll be ok my friend. Time heals all wounds.

Answer 8

try to go on with your life and dont look back look forward and on your way forward try to put back together the broken pieces to your heart.

Answer 9

Time
Go out and have a good time with your girlfriends
Buy lots of new clothes
Book a sun holiday
Get a new hair cut
Keep busy!

Answer 10

do thing u love to do 4 urself and sometime it takes time
when the time comes, u will get over the person.
4 some it takes time, but it will past