Family & Relationships - 12 November 2006

on what I should choose as a carrer path, I love to sing, but I also love sports most preferably basketball, I hate school and I want to finish it A.S.A.P. i'm in high school I plan on finishing high school and I don't know what i'm gonna do after that I might go to a junior colledge because with the marks and the courses that i'm taking itz either junior colledge or not colledge at all.. I don't kow if I should play basketball or be a singer if I play basketball then I will finsih my education and maybe go to universtiy if I sing then right after high school i'm gonna jump into that carrer I have no Idea on which carrear path to pick for basketball i'm a freshman, age 14, 150 pounds of muscle and 5'11, I can atually sing good girls say i'm cute and sexy... I don't know what to do i've been thinking about this for a long while now like 2 years and I think itz time that I decide so I can commit my time on what I really want to do.. please help me decide.. Serious answers please nd thx q

2006-11-12 08:43:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-12 08:42:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i just had sum rat girl come to my house and beat me up, i really wanna get her back how do i do with out gettin in to trouble, the police cant do anything cos they dont no where she lives and neither do i

2006-11-12 08:42:51 · 5 answers · asked by sarah_squidge 1 in Friends

my boyfreind and i were together for about 3 months and he went to jail. hes been in jail for a year and hes supossed to be getting out on december. well i just got a recent letter from him saying he wont be back for another year. what should i do? im starting to like other guys, but dont wanna hurt him.

2006-11-12 08:41:58 · 22 answers · asked by desireeethisss17 1 in Friends

I love my father, and I know he's the adult so you guys will say he can do whatever he wants, but it really, really annoyes me when he swears. Everywhere I turn I hear the F word come out of his mouth. He knows I don't like it, and I've told him this many times. And my brother, mother, and sister don't like it either. And he knows we don't like it. It seems like he does it to annoy us. Or maybe he just swears because he's mad. But either way, if he knows we don't like it, I don't think he should do it. But I have no idea why he does it. Please tell me how I can get this to stop, and why he does it. Thanks!!!!

2006-11-12 08:40:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i hate tatooed people and tatoos.....i find them very disgusting...i hate the way they look on people skin..i think they destroy appearance and make people look like freaks....i think when they got old they all will be a lot of horrible wrinkled people....(i'd bet they don't think they are going to be old)
i'm the only one who hates tatoos?

2006-11-12 08:39:58 · 14 answers · asked by quencerman 1 in Friends

2006-11-12 08:39:08 · 6 answers · asked by lorraine 1 in Friends

you. well, if you like them like thats. that was how my first kiss was

2006-11-12 08:38:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When i met my husband he was interesting and lively. Now that we are married, i feel so settled. He goes to bed at 9:30 every night, on weekends he always wants to be home early. he does not have many interests, he does not like to read, or dance. I love to read, and dance. We have nothing to talk about. I on the other hand am an extremely adventurous go getter. i like to be up late, socializing, have interesting conversation. I just can't get it through to him that i am really depressed over this. And maybe i am being one sided, i am not sure. He does wake up early in the morning for work, and is usually tired at the end of the week. Our income can be limited and we do live in an expensive metropolis. He is really a very loving guy, and does a lot for me. He thinks i am focusing to much on one thing, and not on all the positive qualities he does have. Any advice?

2006-11-12 08:37:57 · 19 answers · asked by nycchic 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Are there any normal women out there who actually take care of themselves and act like a woman and not a sailor?

2006-11-12 08:37:47 · 5 answers · asked by tony s 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 08:37:18 · 11 answers · asked by alb 1 in Marriage & Divorce

theres this girl and i grew up loving her i fell in love w/ her in 6th grade i expressed my feelings and she has fallen in love with another guy and now she wont talk to me im going to take my own life in this exchange of love and hate of course so good bye to everyone and have a good life i know its cliche' but whatever

2006-11-12 08:36:56 · 14 answers · asked by blahh 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex-wife is falsly accusing me of using drugs and I ethically don't feel I should have to take a test just because she says I use drugs in a child support case.

2006-11-12 08:36:28 · 13 answers · asked by JBUD 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im a middle child i have an older brother who is in college and no longer living at home, and my younger sister is 12 and actually somewhat lazy and doesnt do much to help with the house chores. Im a 17 yr. old female and my mom is one of those people who believes that the women should do the cleaning, now i dont mind cleaning but i mind when im the only one doing the cleaning, my mom does the cooking and shes a stay at home mom so i dont mind too much if she doesnt help clean, but my parents say that my sister is "too young to clean" when i was cleaning at 9/10. how do i talk to them and get them to have my sister help with the chores.i find my parents often doing her school reports, and homework (which by the way they never helped me with mine at her age). they seem to think she is too young for everything, they even clean her room for her. they never did any of this when i was her age. how do i convince them that she is old enough to help with chores and i need the help.

2006-11-12 08:36:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The boys are 7 yrs, 5 yrs, and 7 months old. They are all very wonderful babies and they just do not understand why they are not gonna get anything from Santa! These kids think that they have done something wrong because they still believe in Santa. I feel so bad and can only do so much because I have 3 small babies myself, and can only do so much! I Love them all and it really hurts me to see this year after year!

2006-11-12 08:35:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-12 08:34:30 · 4 answers · asked by hrmom02 2 in Marriage & Divorce

the first time you made love to your husband or boy friend i mean the very first time when you were a virgin did he use a comdom if yes did it make it better on your stress level the first time???

2006-11-12 08:34:26 · 9 answers · asked by little_bear 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

When my wife and I lived in matrimonial bliss she would often complain that I would sit (cocooned on my armchair) rather than sit in a more intimate way ,alongside her on the sofa.
Amongst other things, this was cited as a cause in our divorce.
Just as a matterof interest, how many of you,happily married men prefer your own comfy armchair

2006-11-12 08:33:26 · 27 answers · asked by mickeok 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i want to get him a gift for christmas that he would like that is not expensive and not something that looks like i bought from the dollar store. keep in mind that he is in middle school

2006-11-12 08:33:14 · 10 answers · asked by lone_star52 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy at my school.
i really like him.
were friends.
we barely talk because im shy.
he knows i like him and thats why we became friends.
last year he said that he would dance with me at a school dance but then we both couldnt go.
we hang out sometimes for a little while like at basketball practices and games but im really shy so usually i make him come up to me first.
sometimes he does which makes me feel like he actually cares.
do you think he likes me and what should i do?

** no answers that say you'll find out when you get older because this seems childish to me.

thankz

2006-11-12 08:32:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So women do you like giving or receiving? Men same question,
please people humour me i lead a boring dull sexless life i need some excitment from somewhere!!

2006-11-12 08:32:24 · 4 answers · asked by jules 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Some of my bridesmaids and myself would like to make "Bride" and "Groom" T-shirts......does anyone have any ideas on how I should do this...if so please let me know....Thanks! :)

2006-11-12 08:32:15 · 7 answers · asked by Melanie 1 in Weddings

I would like to buy a xmas present for a friend's 11 yr old but have no idea what they like! I have looked and looked and am confused. Any ideas?! Thanks

2006-11-12 08:32:11 · 12 answers · asked by Stephanie C 3 in Friends

2006-11-12 08:32:10 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There's this guy that's a grade above me, and he's really hott.
i'v never talked 2 him, and he probably doesn't know i exist. if not, he thinks i'm stalking him. i really want to be at least his friend.
HOW????

2006-11-12 08:31:44 · 6 answers · asked by Linds27*** 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is good to me but he's not romantic, in fact he thinks anything romantic is lame or gay. I've spent my whole life collecting romance movies, quotes, and ideas because I'm a hopless romantic and I hoped that one day someone will give me that and something real. He was about to leave me saying that I would be happier with "that guy" whenever I find him, but I told him no...I'm choosing him. Did I do the right thing? Sacraficing my dream for him?

2006-11-12 08:31:39 · 14 answers · asked by Cathy 4 in Singles & Dating

Like nicole richie or mark kate olsen???
Why if you do like it?

2006-11-12 08:30:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this girl I've liked for a long time, and she knows I like her, and rumour has it that she likes me alot aswell. We're very close friends and enjoy each others company alot, some people say we look like a couple even though we 'haven't made it official'

Seems perfect, right?

But i'm an incredibaly shy person when it comes to romance, hence why I haven't asked her out yet, but now I've decided to step up and finally do it.

So here's my masterplan, it's her birthday very soon, so I've had one dozen red roses delivered to her house, and with influence from the saying "what you can't say, you can still write" I've send a card with the rosrs and in that card Is everything I want to tell her, how I've been too shy to ask her, how much I love her and asking if she would want to go out with me.

I thought it would be really romantic.

Now I'm worried it's too much, and it might frighten her away from me, and I really don't want that.

I need to know your opions on this.

2006-11-12 08:30:17 · 12 answers · asked by Bluesky 2 in Singles & Dating

If you come across her, her name is crazy_pixie_dust, i think she has a menatl disease or something but its seriously weird, i gave her my myspace and she left me comments like

do you want swim in the Atlantic Ocean with male penguins!

LIKE WHY WOULD I DO THAT

how can i explain to her she is weird lol, i don't want to be mean

2006-11-12 08:30:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this guy who goes to my skool and after i found out he liked me, i started liking him to. we danced at a dance and stuff. he told ppl that he really liked me. but just on wenensday we kinda had a fight because he said that i was ignoring him (and i kinda was but only cause he was ignoring me) but i felt really bad so i talked to him after skool and told him i was really srry... than i walked away b4 he could say anything after i said i was srry. so that night i texted him and told him i was srry again and he asked me do u really like me, and i said i do but i understand it if u dont, than he said i like u. i was really happy that our fight was over and that he liked me. but just yesterday i got a call from somebody telling me that he has a gf! at first i didnt belive that person. so i texted him from my friends phone to c if he really did have a gf, and he does! what happened? what should i do?

2006-11-12 08:29:53 · 21 answers · asked by Cutie P 2 in Singles & Dating