theres this girl and i grew up loving her i fell in love w/ her in 6th grade i expressed my feelings and she has fallen in love with another guy and now she wont talk to me im going to take my own life in this exchange of love and hate of course so good bye to everyone and have a good life i know its cliche' but whatever
2006-11-12 08:36:56 · 14 answers · asked by blahh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're serious, dont, no matter how much you loved this girl, she is definatly not worth your life, There are plenty more girls out there, girls that you deserve and that deserve you. Seriously, you'l find someone else, i thought i wouldnt but i did....
If your not serious, and this is a joke, well then you are just plain sick....
2006-11-12 08:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I would hate to admit that my entire existence depended on the feelings of someone else.
You are an individual...a person who has their own mind; can make their own choices; can decide their own future........and you are going to kill yourself because a girl fell for some other guy. I would hate to think that some other person had that much control over my life.
Why do you want anybody else's comments for? If you have made this decision to off yourself....why do you care what anyone else has to say about it. Do you honestly think that you are going to get supporters of this insane act that you are threatening??
Have you even thought about how this will affect the people that DO love you??/ Your mother and father, siblings, other relatives; your friends,classmates (if you're still in school), neighbors,etc.
The effects of suicide follow those left behind for the rest of their lives.....yours end when your heart stops beating.
What has your family done to deserve this kind of punishment...which is what it is, because they will spend the rest of their lives blaming themselves and asking where they went wrong and what could they have done to stop it, and why didn't they see it coming. The hell they put themselves through is thousands times worse than the pain you will feel for only seconds depending on how you choose to oust yourself.
I know this first hand because my father committed suicide the day after Christmas 2000. We still do not know why and never will, and yet we have all blamed ourselves over and over for not seeing it coming and stopping it.
Your experts will say that the person who talks about committing suicide usually don't do it...but it is the ones who never talk about it that do.
This girl must be some piece of work to have you jumping through hoops over her. And she doesn't even care what you do...or does she even know?
If she does, and if she would come back to you just because of that......would you really want her like that?? Do you really want her to be with you out of guilt? What kind of relationship would that be??
I'll bet you could go out and get another girlfriend anytime and that she would love you for you and not because she is forced to be with you for whatever reason.
Would that not be a better relationship to have??
But, the choice is up to you. No one can make that final decision for you. I just hope you have the courage to make the RIGHT decision.
It takes a strong person to live and face what comes.....but only a coward gives up and takes their life.
Who are you?????????
Good Luck my friend.
2006-11-12 08:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by lildragonlexi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things happen for a reason, don't take your life because it hasn't happened for you yet. God has a plan for all of us and you would be disrupting that plan by taking your own life. Killing yourself is such a selfish act, think of all the people that love you and would be hurt by your actions. A friend of mine just killed herself last week, she had 5 kids and a husband and she took her own life because of reasons that may seem bad now, but would have gotten better in time. Think before you act, you are not thinking straight. I understand how hurtful love can be sometimes, but your real soul mate is out there waiting for you and if you do something stupid like this, you'll miss it!!!!!
2006-11-12 08:47:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you take your life just because someone you love fell in love with someone else.. There is plenty other females n this world. and im pretty sure the 6th grade for you was a loooonnnggg time ago.. So pretty much get over it.. Youll be o.k go see a therapist.
2006-11-12 08:42:21 · answer #4 · answered by Nellz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a shame you are letting the other guy win. By killing yourself you are saying that he is better than you and she could never be interested in you. However, in a month or two she may break up with him and find that you are just the kind of guy she really needs. Too bad you won't be around to see this happen. I don't know why you would take the easy way out. I would be interested enough to stay around and wait for her.
2006-11-12 08:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll get so many people going, NOOOOO! Don't do it! You have to much to live for. Not me. Don't be a p ussy and talk about it. DO like my own twin brother did. HE didn't talk about it. He drank two bottles of liquor and shot himself in the neck with a shotgun. Don't ever come on here and talk and whine about some girl and how your going to end it. If you ever do that again, I'll find you and kill you myself.
2006-11-12 08:44:37 · answer #6 · answered by TheOneVersion3.0 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My cousin Michael did the same thing about 15 years ago.
Today, he probably would have been married to the REAL love of his life and probably have a family of his own.
2006-11-12 08:40:59 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do that. It seems impossible to live without her now but I promise you the pain eases. And if you let nature take its course, eventually they could break up and you could have your shot. You get nothing if you are not alive. Your life is precious and so are you. Feel free to email me.
2006-11-12 08:41:55 · answer #8 · answered by Sony 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, get a grip. Don't get worked up over some girl. She doesn't like you, and that's that. You'll find the right girl in time, if you're still alive. So don't do something stupid (killing yourself would fall into that category).
2006-11-12 08:40:59 · answer #9 · answered by Becca M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you kill yourself over one girl when there is probably some other girl in the world that your suppose to be with. you are going to leave that girl alone for the rest of her life and she will feel the same pain as you right now.
2006-11-12 08:41:58 · answer #10 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋