My boyfriend is good to me but he's not romantic, in fact he thinks anything romantic is lame or gay. I've spent my whole life collecting romance movies, quotes, and ideas because I'm a hopless romantic and I hoped that one day someone will give me that and something real. He was about to leave me saying that I would be happier with "that guy" whenever I find him, but I told him no...I'm choosing him. Did I do the right thing? Sacraficing my dream for him?
2006-11-12 08:31:39 · 14 answers · asked by Cathy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope..
You made a mistake..
Find someone who can be both your best friend and lover..
Someone with whom you share some common interests and goals
2006-11-12 08:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My hubby doesn't have a romantic bone in his body. He even blows out candles at a candlelite dinner and turns on the lights. There is more to loving someone than candlelite dinners and unexpected flowers. There is the phone call in the middle of the day to talk, the kiss when leaving the house or coming home, the making you that cup of tea or just rubbing your feet and there is the being their when you need him no questions asked. You have to decide if his brand of romance is enough for you or not. Don't throw away a good man without thinking about this.
2006-11-12 16:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by kny390 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We can't have everything, most men say they are not romantic but they are, us women can't tell them that, let him be "the man" don't let him know you now better. Keep the romantic movies, books, quotes and ideas in your dreams where they belong the man is real.
2006-11-12 16:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by lara 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U DID WRONG! your dreams are your treasure! If his not the way u would like him 2 be, or u dont share the same type of love, let him go. There are plenty of romantics in this world, don't worry; there are many of us ;) LIVE YOUR DREAM
2006-11-12 16:37:17 · answer #4 · answered by red 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to have to tell you this, but it sounds like this guy is not for you. Worse yet, he TOLD YOU he's not the right guy for you.
It sounds like you really need romance in your life - and this guy straight out told you that he can't give you that.
You need to find a man who can give you want you want and need in a relationship.
And you definitely should NOT give up that dream!
2006-11-13 23:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, because a woman or girl shouldn't sacrafie anything for a guy. You have your own life to live and you're not living it for him, so let him go, and move on to someone that cares for you and there dreams. If you can do your dreams then find someone.
LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE GIRL!!!
2006-11-12 16:39:04 · answer #6 · answered by nisha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only time will tell...........
Something Specially
For You
I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard-
I felt the answer in my heart
Although He spoke no word!
I didn't ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn't mind)-
I asked Him to send you treasures
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He'd be near you
At the start of each new day
To grant you health and blessings
And my friendship to share your way
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small-
But it was for His loving care
I prayed the most of all.
By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra
2006-11-12 16:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by Cobra 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it really depend on whether or not you actually NEED romance from your man,,its ok to be totally different if he makes you happy,,sometimes what we think we need doesnt match up to what we get but we are still happy,,this is for you to decide,,there is no reason to think that one day,,when you really need it or want it that,for you,,because you are special,,he does something nice,,we can all change.as a couple you may grow together and when someone loves you and wants your happy smiling face directed at just them,they may just surprise you.dont sacrifice what you have if its good just because you think he should be someone else,,it may not be what actually does it for you.enjoy what you have until you dont enjoy it anymore.
2006-11-12 16:42:04 · answer #8 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no you are not right!!!!!!!! if this guy love you he would sacrifice for you too, love and respect are a 2 way road dear.........if you start scarificing who you are.....you will soon lose yourself. be you, let him be him.....and if it does not work out you are a whole lot better off believe me. you stay with this guy, an d you will wake up 30-40 years old, unhappy, with kids and will wake up one day wondering "what in the hell happened to my dreams and my life"
2006-11-12 16:37:19 · answer #9 · answered by trish the dish 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I chose a guy i thought i "loved", Now, 24 years later, I wish I had run screaming from him. You're a fool if you sacrifice what you are for some dumb lame stupid guy.
2006-11-12 16:35:18 · answer #10 · answered by who dat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋