there is this guy at my school.
i really like him.
were friends.
we barely talk because im shy.
he knows i like him and thats why we became friends.
last year he said that he would dance with me at a school dance but then we both couldnt go.
we hang out sometimes for a little while like at basketball practices and games but im really shy so usually i make him come up to me first.
sometimes he does which makes me feel like he actually cares.
do you think he likes me and what should i do?
** no answers that say you'll find out when you get older because this seems childish to me.
thankz
2006-11-12 08:32:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
one more thing...he kinda has a girlfriend...theyre growing apart though and they barely talk...
when ever he sees her he starts talking to me and acts like he hates her...some times he acts all sad after talking to her and when iask whats wrong he says...o nothing...all of his friends are talking to her and saying whats going on hes really sad but idk...
2006-11-12 08:40:14 · update #1
He likes you and wants to talk to you. Talk to him and try to overcome your shyness with him.
2006-11-12 08:35:42 · answer #1 · answered by huggz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should try to get over being shy and go up to him first. You are friends w/ him right, then you should have no problem going up to him. Start out w/ small talk and eventually it will grow. I am in the same situation. I am very shy also but one day I made a small conversation w/ him. It keeps getting larger and larger I think that if you make a conversation w/ him he will start liking you. If you really like him show it more. Maybe he does like you and he doesn't want to show it. Hope this helped.
2006-11-12 16:39:21 · answer #2 · answered by ♥S I L L Y G I R L♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this guy likes u, but if u r 2 shy to talk to him or approch him I am not so sure u r ready 4 a relationship. Also any guy w. a gf is off limits at least until they break up. I know this from my own experince. If u really like him he will be worth the wait.
2006-11-12 16:56:45 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_stuff_0989 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep being yourself. a good fun friend that makes him feel good about himself when he is with you.
if you want to turn on the flirt power, dont resist the urge to touch him every once in a while, either while u laugh at something, or on his shoulder if you want to move in and confide something to him.
always look super cute and on top of your game. now this does not mean becoming someone else, this means be a becoming you!
2006-11-12 16:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by dansza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him show him through your actions. I think that since he comes and talks to you most of the time maybe you should go and talk to him. I think at this age that you should not take it so seriously.
2006-11-12 16:36:45 · answer #5 · answered by meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems interested in you, but he is wanting you to meet him halfway. If he approaches you all the time and you never approach him he is going to think that you aren't into him. So next time you see him muster up your courage and tell him how good he did on his bball game, then try to stir up conversation..see what happens
2006-11-12 16:36:30 · answer #6 · answered by goldengirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess he likes you also, you may have to drop a big hint for him to speak to you about getting together..or you could right him a little note about how you feel about him on it. Especially since your shy, you may want to try writeing your feelings down and letting him know
2006-11-12 16:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by pchick261 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about your feelings, you have nothing to loose at least you know his answer, don't loose your life day dreaming, you never know where the chance comes.
good luck
2006-11-12 16:40:21 · answer #8 · answered by escada81julie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he actually puts forth an effort to come up to u and talk then he must have sum sort of feelings for u. good luck with that!.......................take a chance and talk to him!!!!!!
2006-11-12 16:36:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you!!!!!!
dont be shy
just remeber that he likes you a lot
talk to him more
give him hugs and stufff
2006-11-12 16:35:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋