There is this guy who goes to my skool and after i found out he liked me, i started liking him to. we danced at a dance and stuff. he told ppl that he really liked me. but just on wenensday we kinda had a fight because he said that i was ignoring him (and i kinda was but only cause he was ignoring me) but i felt really bad so i talked to him after skool and told him i was really srry... than i walked away b4 he could say anything after i said i was srry. so that night i texted him and told him i was srry again and he asked me do u really like me, and i said i do but i understand it if u dont, than he said i like u. i was really happy that our fight was over and that he liked me. but just yesterday i got a call from somebody telling me that he has a gf! at first i didnt belive that person. so i texted him from my friends phone to c if he really did have a gf, and he does! what happened? what should i do?
2006-11-12 08:29:53 · 21 answers · asked by Cutie P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he isnt tellin ppl im his gf! it is somebody else. when i asked him who it was (pretending i was somebody else) he told me somebody elses name
2006-11-12 08:33:33 · update #1
he isnt cheating on me cause he never actually asked me out out, and he never considered me his gf
2006-11-12 08:34:23 · update #2
he just got the gf thursday
2006-11-12 08:35:02 · update #3
That sucks that he has a gf........u guys sound perfect though...well i think u should like back away.u don't wanna ruin there relationship,,,,i think if he really likes u then he would brake up with his gf first,don't u think hes cheating on his gf?
2006-11-12 08:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a player watch out he will lie and tell ou all the things you want to hear. Now I am 57 years old and believe me the truth? You want the truth?? Drop him like a hot potato. He is a liar and if you can't see it you are doomed to a really bad relatonship. Go find a real man. One that is honest.
Virgo, is a good place to start. Get over liking somone who just wants tropheys
2006-11-12 16:35:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you I would say "Hey, we're better off friends, I wouldn't wanna cause you trouble" That really sucks he lied. Dont you hate it~~ ughh!! Well sweety, but you can tell by what you write he probably liked you more then his girl, or maybe his girl was throwin him off so he went off and did his thing flirting with you. But if you guys like each other and he really does just tell him what i said up there and if hes says "ok" it was so totally about bit**n around with you. I hope everything goes ok, but hey you don't have to listen to all of us, go by what Your heart tells you to do. Follow what yo really want. Go on, theres millions of men in this world.
2006-11-12 16:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by Candy_T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think u really liked him in the first place u just wanted somebody to be your bf. but it was totally wrong for him to not tell u about his gf. you should be happy that u didnt get together with him.
2006-11-12 16:35:02 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should confront him face to face and not by fone call or txting. calmly start a conversation about whether or not he does like u and remind him again that u really like him. if the guilt doesn't get him by then, then slowly ease in to ask him why he is cheating on his gf. if he denies it supply your proof. if he is about to dump his gf and really does like you, then if u don't mind that he did lie to u at first, then go out with him, if not there are plenty other fish in the sea who i'm sure with like/love you all the same. the question is do u love them?...
hope this helps
2006-11-12 16:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl dont feel bad about it maybe he does have a gf and he has a crush on u and maybe hes trying to break up with his other gf so he could go out with u just dont be mad and talk to him tell him if u have a girl friend or not ok dont worry
2006-11-12 16:33:13 · answer #6 · answered by ♥still luvin u♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i'd suggest never to get invovled with a guy who has a girlfriend. that is just a horrible thing to do. instead, go ask him yourself if he has one. if he says he does, then tell him to choose between you or that other girl, and if he says he doesn't, then ask him why everyone else says that he does. honestly, if he seems like he's the lying type, don't get invovled because you'll end up being hurt.
2006-11-12 16:33:00 · answer #7 · answered by Krupa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm are you interested in being his "side" girl... "chick on the side" or "second thought" or "leftovers"
If none of the above interesting you, as a position you want to fill in his life, then I think you already have your answer.
This is not the last boy that will like you, please, and also you said you didn't have interest in him, UNTIL AFTER you knew he liked you, so it wasn't even like he was a first thought in your mind.
Keep it moving babes!
2006-11-12 16:34:50 · answer #8 · answered by * Deep Thought * 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him what you heard. Ask him did he tell you that he liked you before or after he had a gf. If you really like him talk to him.
2006-11-12 16:33:35 · answer #9 · answered by meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First use a spell check and then sit down and think....If something does not feel right, go with your gut feelings...Always have the courage to ask people even confront them if need be (and if safe to do so). Never assume...ask...ask him and ask his friends....good luck with your spellings...
2006-11-12 16:34:02 · answer #10 · answered by deevoonay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋