the first time you made love to your husband or boy friend i mean the very first time when you were a virgin did he use a comdom if yes did it make it better on your stress level the first time???
2006-11-12 08:34:26 · 9 answers · asked by little_bear 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes he used a condom and Yes it made the stress level go down. I think if you respect the woman and yourself, you need to be protected, not only from an unplanned pregnancy but from any diseases out there. Even though she might be a virgin (from what she is telling you) you don't know her family history and if either of her parents have AIDS. These are all things to consider when you take a sexual partner.
2006-11-12 14:14:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With my current husband, the first time we made love (I was not a virgin, obviously), we did not use a condom, as I was on the pill at the time. We discussed this prior to entertaining one another intimately and was relieved of any stress, as we communicated our concerns to one another BEFORE the event itself.
With my first husband, we did not use a condom either, as I was on the pill then. We discussed what our preferences were before we did the deed; therefore alleviated any stress that would be concerned with pregnancy (STDs were not a concern then as we both were not sexually active but were not virgins either).
2006-11-12 17:39:34 · answer #2 · answered by terryoulboub 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, he wore a condom. It really didn't matter to me because I was just laying there on my back, my pants around my ankles, legs up in the air, him going at it for 2 minutes or less and I'm laying there thinking "This is all there is to it? What's the big deal then?"
2006-11-12 16:37:43 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes, in a car and the stress level was medium, because I was afraid someone would come by or see us (we were in a parking lot) and the cops did show up---totally embarassing
2006-11-12 17:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by faeriemagik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very first time there was a condom and I was still very afraid I would end up pregnant until I got my next period.
2006-11-12 16:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by ginyamarie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I used condom and there was no stress level.
2006-11-12 16:49:34 · answer #6 · answered by juicie813 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Funny you should ask ! No he didn't and I got
pregnant the first time .
2006-11-12 16:45:31 · answer #7 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
na he didnt use one. an he has never used one, i am on the pill, i dont think i would like it if he wore one.
2006-11-12 16:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have not had sex yet but i heard that sex makes us ladies loss weight.
2006-11-12 16:37:47 · answer #9 · answered by Abena 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋