Family & Relationships - 11 November 2006

hi, i'm a recently remarried mother of 3. all was as it should be until after a somewhat minor surgery i was dismissed from my job.my husband and i fought and i was able to collect unemployment however we suffered a serios financial loss. despite my efforts i have come up empty in my job search. now we find ourselves comming up empty handed. we are in danger of having electricity turned off, water, phone and everthing. my husband works so hard every day and i do what i can odd jobs and so on but i'm affraid that my girls will have no christmas this year. does anyone have an advice or know of anywhere we can find help? i feel almost unfit and i'm very scared that my mistakes will ruin my girls belief in Santa!

2006-11-11 07:00:20 · 13 answers · asked by esmith_75 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So women do you like to be in control or do you like to be the submissive ones or does it depends on both of your moods? Same goes for men!

2006-11-11 07:00:05 · 13 answers · asked by jules 4 in Singles & Dating

Guys, as earlier mentioned, there is this girl that asked me out to dance that I rejected. At the time of her request, she had a boyfriend. Anyways, she told me that she she had broken up with her boyfriend. I had a feeling she liked me. I liked her also. I was afraid to ask her out. After summoning courage from you guys, I did ask her out. We went out to eat. I thought we had a good time. After the dinner, I told her that I would like to do more this dinner? We hugged. End of story. My questions are:
1) should I have kissed her that same day?
2) What else should I do now?
3) She was the one who initiated the hug, b4 I reciprocated.
4) Should I wait till a week to do something again or what? please advice me. I am just a novice in this dating scene.

2006-11-11 06:59:21 · 7 answers · asked by hey101 1 in Singles & Dating

i cant be more specific otherwise my question will mysteriously vanish

2006-11-11 06:59:19 · 21 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4 in Singles & Dating

Mornin' campers. Buzz Lightyear here, and it seems that we have a caller on line:3 with a question for you:

"Hi guys, I've been hanging out with this girl these past couple weeks. I find it difficult to tell whether or not it is friendship or something beyond. She wants to take me ice-skating for my birthday in december. Would you guys consider this to be just a 'friendly' plan, or what? I'll admit that I am slow when it comes to detecting body language, etc. Please provide thoughtful input. The best answer gets $50 btw."

'Really appreciate everyone's help. Time for me to go now, to infinity and beyond!

2006-11-11 06:57:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 06:57:46 · 2 answers · asked by Christina 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 06:56:48 · 9 answers · asked by The EsO 1 in Friends

she has been acting strange and we have been on the way out, i would rather catch her in the act because I know her enuf to know she will deny it. what can i do to catch her?

2006-11-11 06:56:30 · 11 answers · asked by Angry Insightful Black 3 in Marriage & Divorce

how do you get them to understand how it make you feel and get them to stop. you would think that they would get it and when they got married that they would not feel the need to look at it anymore when they have the real thing.

2006-11-11 06:56:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well let's be honest I want to "finger" my chick. She hasn't done it before, but I think if I made the right moves it could happen. Now, guys and girls, help me lay my game plan out and my moves to make.

2006-11-11 06:55:41 · 3 answers · asked by J 2 in Singles & Dating

I keep seeing all of these Aunts bragging about their Nieces or Nephews. What is up with that? They brag more than the grandparents or even the parents sometimes. I see them with their nephew or niece's picture as their avatars, I see them posting pictures on forums, etc., etc.

Why are they so proud of something that they had nothing to do with the creation of and why do they go around acting as though they had something to do with the creation... ?

This is just something that I keep noticing more and more for some reason.

2006-11-11 06:55:28 · 7 answers · asked by Jocelyn 3 in Family

Like what happend if ur perents don't let you do what u want to do and they get u grounded for doing nothing or asking 2 go to ur friends house and then u get grounded for another 3 weeks and you didn't do nothing

2006-11-11 06:54:38 · 5 answers · asked by chipeater2 1 in Family

ok, heres another guy thing.
so, theres this guy and basically i want to get his attention. i have sunday to do this. any suggestions?

btw, low cut shirts or short skirts ((etc)) are out of the question.

2006-11-11 06:53:27 · 16 answers · asked by =] [= 3 in Singles & Dating

Last Friday, had a great date with a guy I've been seeing for two months. On Monday, I sent him a text. No response. Tuesday, I left a message. No response. Yesterday, sent another text. No response. A couple of weeks ago, we made a date to go to a concert Thanksgiving weekend. I bought my ticket and wanted to know if he bought his.

We didn't have an argument or anything and I am at a loss. I've texted this guy twice and left a voice message. It has never taken him this long to get back to me so this behavior is very strange. How much more can I possibly do without looking like a stalker?

My friend says I shouldn't jump to conclusions but I can't help it. My feelings are really starting to get hurt. And say he does call me back? What do I do then? Go out with him again? Why do guys do this? What's the deal?

2006-11-11 06:53:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Jhonathan Postgate

2006-11-11 06:53:11 · 3 answers · asked by sexyprep852 1 in Weddings

I'm turning 16. This is my third year in a new school, with totally new people. Once I was invited to a birthday party, but I couldn't go, and since then I've never been invited. I think that my new friends think that I didn't want to go.


I need to invite them to my own birthday party.
My parents don't think it's right for a guy to invite any girls to his birthday party, so that option is gone.


Does anyone have any ideas?
I need to invite my male friends over for the party, but I don't know how to do it, where etc.


One friend of mine isn't even friends with the rest of my friends, so if he came, he would have noone to talk to but me, and it wouldn't be right talking to only one person the entire time.


Please Help... :)

2006-11-11 06:51:34 · 6 answers · asked by husam 4 in Friends

2006-11-11 06:50:24 · 7 answers · asked by aliciloveyou 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Describe how they would look and act.

2006-11-11 06:49:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm 7.5 months prego, my boyfriend is bored with his life and likes to "make it more interesting" by doing meth sometimes. although he usually does it every 4-6 weeks, as my due date approaches, he seems to be doing it every weekend. the entire time i've known him, he's done this but i am getting worried because i don't want to have him in the delivery room if he's out of his mind! that might sound mean, but i just know that he'd probably not be any help to relaxing me if he was there and messed up? has anyone had this issue and really, will he stop once the baby gets here? if he doesn't i've already told him, i won't leave the baby alone with him. any advice? experiences? please, share!

2006-11-11 06:48:58 · 18 answers · asked by green eyed sole 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so my mom and i are in kuwait right now, i came to visit for a couple months and make some tax free money and spend some time with her. alcohol is illegal here and she is wasted all the time dont get me wrong i drink with her but she drinks until she drops, and i came here to be with my mom soberish, sometimes, she gets fuc*ed up and says really harsh comments. it hurts even though im drinking with her and i know she's drunk is it all my fault and im just thinking too much about the whole situation? i would love n e advise

2006-11-11 06:48:07 · 15 answers · asked by Aaron m420 4 in Family

Six months ago I told my wife I want a divorce. It has taken me years to come to this decision. For years she made me feel terrible about myself. One day I decided I couldn't take it any more and refused to let her bully me and to stop always caving in to her. She had said numerous times that she was unhappy, wanted to leave and leave me with the children-2 sons, that I should find someone else, that it was her and not me. We tried counseling a few years back, but only after I wrote her a letter. That attempt failed miserably.

Two months prior to telling her I wanted a divorce, she told me that it was ok if I didn’t love her anymore and if it was over to just tell her. I guess I wasn’t ready and said lets just wait a little longer. I get up the nerve to tell her I want a divorce and she flips out completely. The next day we talk and she goes on how she wants to counseling and I caved in. Here we are 6 months later and I am still unhappy. I dont feel for her the way she does about me.

2006-11-11 06:47:31 · 23 answers · asked by matt813 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am a married 19 yr old and we have a 15 month old baby. we got married when i was 17, but now im regretting it. dont get me wrong, i wld do it all over again just for my little one because i love him so much, but everything else seems to have gone pear-shaped with my husband. firstly on his stag night he wrote an email to another woman saying "im getting married tomorrow but its u ill always love" - i found out after being married for a few weeks, then he asked me to convert to islam (his religion) and stopped me drinking, then he threw out all my clothes he didnt like without consulting me, and now he threatens to have an affair or to hit me when we argue. he says if our son turns out bad it will be me who he blames and if he is not religious enough, he will take him to pakistan to live and i wont c him again, i still love him but i cant trust him and he is very secretive, but if i divorce i will feel like a failure.

2006-11-11 06:46:34 · 32 answers · asked by katie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it because we love our partner or is it because we have the animal urge??

2006-11-11 06:45:57 · 45 answers · asked by jules 4 in Singles & Dating

i am thinking of having sex for the first time... is there anything i need to know (besides using condoms)

2006-11-11 06:45:41 · 13 answers · asked by ERICA J 3 in Singles & Dating

I asked if men wanted to have a Be Good to Your Wife night and 1 guy answered the rest were women. What is so wrong with with being romantic to your wife.

2006-11-11 06:45:03 · 9 answers · asked by Steven W 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

the only problem is that she has someone else in her life righ now it all started as us just hanging out,nothing serious.but now that we've been hanging out our feelings have grown 4 eachother she still has this guy but she's telling me she wants to be with me i told her i didnt want to make her choose but if it kept going on like this then i know it'll never work out ! i left her told her that i didnt want to be apart of her life if i had to be 2nd all the time . i guess what i'm asking is if i should of broke it off i really like this girl n i think about her all day is there hope 4 us or should i run now?

i really need some good advice on this please help!!!

2006-11-11 06:44:48 · 1 answers · asked by Robert 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 06:44:13 · 3 answers · asked by TaNYa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

if iwant sex he makes me wait when he wants it its right now so what do u do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-11 06:43:42 · 4 answers · asked by kandie g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you feel we could bring it back ?
I love it when my man does something special
and goes out of the way to make that effort .
It makes me fall in love with him all over again .
I also like to do special things to let him know that
I am glad he is my lover .
I'm not talking about spending alot of money ,that's
to easy , I mean the personal things .

2006-11-11 06:43:29 · 2 answers · asked by Geedebb 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Our relationship has no future and I know that, we live in different countries and there is a lot of age gap. But I can't stop thinking about him. It's ruining my life, I'm always thinking about him! How can I stop this? Please help.

Give serious answers please.

2006-11-11 06:43:27 · 22 answers · asked by genius 2 in Singles & Dating