i am thinking of having sex for the first time... is there anything i need to know (besides using condoms)
2006-11-11 06:45:41 · 13 answers · asked by ERICA J 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
save it for when a true love comes to ur life
2006-11-11 06:55:47 · answer #1 · answered by flameer 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Is the guy your thinking of losing it to a virgin too? Have you guys been together for a while? Is your relationship long term?
If you can answer yes to any of the above questions I'd say go for it:)
I heard in my human sexuality class that if you masterbate before intercouse it'll take some of the pain out of your hymen tearing (cherry popped) try googling it online if you dont know what that is.
And use alot of lube.
2006-11-11 07:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by Diana 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It might hurt, so don't be surprised. It probably won't be as awesome as tv and movies make it out to be... in fact, it could suck bad. Just remember the first time isn't usually the best. Also, be sure you love the person.
2006-11-11 06:48:27 · answer #3 · answered by two_kee_kees 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it.
Because it creates emotional attachments.
Because it creates high expectations for the future.
Because it hurts a hell of a lot more after the break-up.
Because there's a chance of getting an STD.
Because there's a chance of getting pregnant... NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO TO TRY TO PREVENT IT.
Just be safe and save the sex till marriage.
2006-11-11 06:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you have to give it up do so with some one you care about who cares about you too.first times can be very disappointing and depressing.thought some may not agree with me,it is best to do it with someone who has experience.someone who would know how to touch you and make you tingle all over,someone who would kiss you in places that you never knew existed,someone who would make you giggle days after it's over.this is a big decision make it wisely.
2006-11-11 06:59:32 · answer #5 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Number 1 use protection! Only do things that make you comfortable. Don't do it if your not ready! make sure they are the right person. Make sure your old enough to have sex.
2006-11-11 06:48:40 · answer #6 · answered by amethyst_intrepid 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm no expert, but here are what some experts would tell you:
http://www.pamf.org/teen/sex/virginity/firsttime.html
2006-11-11 06:49:57 · answer #7 · answered by funnyrob01 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Make sure the door is securely locked.
2006-11-11 06:48:09 · answer #8 · answered by Kay 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u might bleed a little bit my girls first time with me she bleed a little bit but it was awesome
2006-11-11 07:00:05 · answer #9 · answered by brandon c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not women but for me the experience was just awful to have virgin.
2006-11-11 06:50:53 · answer #10 · answered by Toto 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋