Guys, as earlier mentioned, there is this girl that asked me out to dance that I rejected. At the time of her request, she had a boyfriend. Anyways, she told me that she she had broken up with her boyfriend. I had a feeling she liked me. I liked her also. I was afraid to ask her out. After summoning courage from you guys, I did ask her out. We went out to eat. I thought we had a good time. After the dinner, I told her that I would like to do more this dinner? We hugged. End of story. My questions are:
1) should I have kissed her that same day?
2) What else should I do now?
3) She was the one who initiated the hug, b4 I reciprocated.
4) Should I wait till a week to do something again or what? please advice me. I am just a novice in this dating scene.
2006-11-11 06:59:21 · 7 answers · asked by hey101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should hold off on the kissing for a couple of dates. Like maybe your third date. If you kiss on your first date it might make one of you feel like your rushing things. If she initiated the hug it might be a sign that she isn't ready for a kiss just yet. So you should wait. As for the next time? You could do a date once a week or every other week however your schedules work out. See what she likes to do. Maybe go to the movies, go for a walk in a nice park, have lunch together... do fun things that you both like to do. Do something that makes you both happy. It sounds like you did a good job for your first date.
2006-11-11 07:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by dartzallmine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything you are not sure of,,this will only make it worse,,you wont be able to control how far things will go if you are trying to be someone more confident,,you already know hugs are on the cards,,she initiated it so you know it is something she thinks is appropriate,,you were right to not kiss her as you are unsure exactly where you stand,,it would not be presumptuous of you to call or make an effort to see her and ask,1st,,how she is and has been,and 2nd,,would she like to go out again,,this is just a question,,if she says "no" just say,,"ok,maybe another time" keep smiling and change the subject to something bland,,what you are doing that weekend or something,,,she either keeps talking or has to go,,either way,,you only stopped for a quick chat anyway,,,,if she says yes,,,just say ,great and make plans,,,chit chat a tad more and get on with your business,,you do have a life so do have one outside your nervousness regarding her.you should try to enjoy these feelings even tho they are scary,,yes you feel weird and un-nerved but just call it excitement,,the thinking of someone else all the time,,the nervousness when you speak to them,,the flush in your cheeks,,the tingle when she brushes against you,,you dont get it all of the time. if she likes you she will be feeling the same,,it is a good time,,so have fun.
2006-11-11 07:14:12 · answer #2 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm it sounds like you both really do like each other!! but i think you should have at least gave her a little kiss on the cheek so she knows that you are interested in her..... cause if all you did was hug her and tell her you want to do this again shes gonna think oh he didnt kiss me he must not like me to much... trust me im a girl i would nkow
2006-11-11 07:02:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should of given her a small but sweet peck. But for now you should call her up and see if she will go out with you again. If she says yes then take her to the movies. But call her now.
2006-11-11 07:06:34 · answer #4 · answered by flutterby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bide your time. You will have the oppurtunity to talk with her. Most likely she is just wanting a friend. Nothing wrong with that.
2006-11-11 07:04:31 · answer #5 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let love show you the way. keep saking her out get to know her and tell her so. bild the relaship with her. or tell her how you feel.
2006-11-11 07:05:11 · answer #6 · answered by sosweetman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok that you didnt kiss her. now she knows youre not desperate. ask her out again. good luck.
2006-11-11 07:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by deejay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋