Family & Relationships - 1 November 2006

"You have been weighted, you have been measured and you have been found wanting."

Nice quote huh?

Anyways, Ladies, what type of test do you put your man through before you finally fall deep in love with him? What must he do, prove to you that he is the kind of man you want. I know he must TRUSTABLE and honorable, but besides the two, what else? What type of test do you give before he has found wanted?

Please writhe in general terms such as: Kind, Honest, ect... and how is the test given?

2006-11-01 14:36:59 · 8 answers · asked by Inquisit 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend has been under loads of stress lately and to top it all off, he just found out his dad's cancer came back, worse than before. I wanna do anything to cheer him up! Could you give me some ideas?

2006-11-01 14:36:49 · 25 answers · asked by Laynerz 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 14:36:38 · 22 answers · asked by trinh 1 in Family

Hi
For ten years, I have been with my husband and I have endured a screwed up relationship with his daughter. During that time I did bond with her three children by taking care of them and giving them shelter when they had none and simply enjoying eachother. My husband's daughter has always managed to manipulate others into doing or giving her things because of the children (Apartments, cars, money,furniture etc..). I played in that cycle for a while until I figured out what she was doing. Now if I don't give in to her or we have a dispute the children are not allowed to come around me. I set the boundary that she was not allowed to come to my home (she or her kids) and asked my husband to go see her and the kids at her home. As soon as I did this, she started sending the kids over to test me and I stood my ground sending them home. Now she has her sister in on this and my husband is upset with me because I refuse to cave. What do I do, am I wrong?

2006-11-01 14:35:22 · 2 answers · asked by Erik 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

This movie was like sort of scary. It was about this girl who lives with her grandma. Her mom died and they are investigating her death. The girl falls for her teacher and like becomes obsessed with him. The grandma is a religious freak and is mean to the girl. The girl acts slutty. This one guy likes her and won't leave her alone. She kills him and puts him in a trunk in the attic. She kills the grandma too. It might be her she puts in the trunk. Anyway, she ends up sleeping with the teacher and he realizes he has made a mistake and then she like flips out. Rose McGowan plays the lead girl. Please help if you know the answer. Thank you!

2006-11-01 14:34:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 14:34:05 · 17 answers · asked by Brian_26 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so my bf was chatting w/ me on ym and he was talking about this other girl that he thought was hot. and it really makes me mad.. not like ill slap his sorry *** but angry like hey over here im ur gf kinda. and he says that if shes desperate he would date her and its making me even more nad what do i do? talk to him seriously about how i feel or let it go?

2006-11-01 14:33:25 · 35 answers · asked by The Lovely Ladies of Soccer 3 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy online. We were talking about him flying down to meet me. "He said that I was special".. and hinted at having a long term relationship. But I thought better of it and decided to call it off for good reasons. I also noticed him logging in the dating website.. all hours of the evening long after I turned in which made me feel suspicious of really being "special".. After that I didn't contact him until the next day. I explained to him why I thought it best that he not fly down. Then he sort of cooled down. Which what I wanted. Then on the next day he sends me an email with at least 20 girl email addresses wishing all of us a happy halloween. I believe he made his point that I was not as special as he told me earlier. I'm wondering why he got so butt hurt about all this.

2006-11-01 14:32:39 · 2 answers · asked by Ready2hearthetruth 1 in Singles & Dating

There is a woman who works for me (I am her boss) and whenever she is in my office she is always stretching and putting her arms over her head. I know she knows that I am attracted -not sure if the reverse is remotely true for her... but is this just teasing/flirting ..or is it nerves?..
ps we are both MarriedwKids...hmmm

2006-11-01 14:31:51 · 16 answers · asked by D M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do guys like when you grab their nuts?
Like if you're making out or whatever...would taht be like weird or do they really like it??

2006-11-01 14:31:42 · 9 answers · asked by ArmyGirlfriend 3 in Singles & Dating

I know this is silly and I am being petty, but! My dear husband of thirty years decided today he wanted a new cell phone.
He had shown me the Cingular website before he went shopping and I told him what phone I wanted. He came back with a top of the line phone for him and a basic phone for me. I was not happy. I am not usually one for the latest gadgets etc, but I was looking forward to having a phone where I could snap the odd picture or two in order to send pics to friends, family etc.
The phone he picked up for me is as basic as it gets. You can call and recieve calls, that is about it. Just like my old phone!. I know it sounds silly but I would like to be able to choose my own ring tone at the very least. I can't even do that, there are no ring tones for this phone available.
I do know I am being petty, but I am very annoyed, because I feel like I am a second hand citizen. His reason? It costs another ten bucks a month for me to have the same phone as him!

2006-11-01 14:31:28 · 6 answers · asked by Janine E 4 in Friends

my fiance is not only blaming me for losing my job, but bringing up things that happeded 4 years ago and throwing it all back in my face again, i want out of here so bad , but have nowhere to go, i am so hurt right now i need help, the furnace just started acting up and he is slamming doors and yelling alot, i am 34 eyars old, and not a clue what to do or how to do it.

2006-11-01 14:31:06 · 12 answers · asked by alc60156 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my fiance is not only blaming me for losing my job, but bringing up things that happeded 4 years ago and throwing it all back in my face again, i want out of here so bad , but have nowhere to go, i am so hurt right now i need help, the furnace just started acting up and he is slamming doors and yelling alot, i am 34 eyars old, and not a clue what to do or how to do it.

2006-11-01 14:30:46 · 11 answers · asked by alc60156 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-01 14:30:45 · 6 answers · asked by florencia b 1 in Singles & Dating

Pre menopause or menopause. I'm hearing at around 40.

2006-11-01 14:30:27 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

this guy i like he was looking at me today and triped over the carpet

2006-11-01 14:30:12 · 25 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

okay...me and this guy have been off and on for about going on three years and right now we are off, but we are kinda fooling around. he's told me countless times that he really loves me, and like a realistic girl, i dont believe him cuz he may be lieing like most guys do, but sometimes i feel like he really means it...and i kinda think im in love with him too. do u think i should tell him i love him or no? and do u think that i should ask him to get back with me again?

2006-11-01 14:29:31 · 7 answers · asked by lost_in_thought 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this girl at school but i go to a boarding school and i am a junior and she is a freshman ...she is also a day student and i am a boarding student... i dont see her much and only see her first period and most of the time i dont get a chance to talk to her.. their is a 30 minute break after second period .. she usually hangs out with all her other friends that are girls .. and i would have to go out of my way to see her or talk to her any other time.. she knows i like her but i think she's really nervous.. anyone have any advice on what i should do ? please give me answers ................. even if they arent helpful =O

2006-11-01 14:28:50 · 1 answers · asked by yangkai90 2 in Singles & Dating

I lost touch with a guy I really liked a few years back (it was my fault that we lost touch) and I'd really like to contact him again. I lost his email address but do have his home address. What should I do? I thought maybe write a letter but it seems a bit full on! Also, he lives in a different country to me which sort of adds to problem! This guy is very special to me so I'd really appreciate the help!!!!

2006-11-01 14:28:29 · 10 answers · asked by Missi 2 in Singles & Dating

it seems like almost every girl i meet is just about sex, money, or usually both. they cant hold a serious, intelligent convo. it didnt used to be this way. what the hell happened?

2006-11-01 14:28:28 · 7 answers · asked by IfULookdAzGudAzMeUdBeatOffALot2 1 in Singles & Dating

Would it be inappropriate and inconsiderate for someone to come out during Thanksgiving, especially with extended relatives around?

2006-11-01 14:28:12 · 7 answers · asked by Special nobody 5 in Family

ok my brothers bestfriend and me have been flirting off and on for years but he wont ask me out instead he askes out another girl what advice or sugjestions do you have for me

2006-11-01 14:28:08 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm not the person to analyze things, but what's the difference?

2006-11-01 14:27:54 · 21 answers · asked by rosepicker 2 in Singles & Dating

i want to do something to suprise her that every girl would want her boyfriend to do for her that all the other girls would be jealous over something to show her i love her and care for her any ideas

2006-11-01 14:27:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

alright why do slutty girls take over all the nice 'churchly' guys? then, there is nobody left. isn't there any guys out there who are just real-nice, considerate, would always pay for dinner, would hold/open a door? if there are any of you, do you already have a gf? it seems like the only guys like that sometimes have a lot of problems, like they can't shut up or are just really annoying and obsessive about everything. I'm trying so hard to be christian and not shallow, but i just want a decent-looking guy that atleast takes care of himself and is nice, funny, christian, and, oh, will TALK to me!!!

2006-11-01 14:26:23 · 7 answers · asked by aerie anna 3 in Singles & Dating

I have this girl I work with, I find myself really attracted to her. Problem is we are both married and have kids. I have 2 adopted girls, she has 2 boys and is married to a lawyer. This lady even knows my wife and talks to her everyday.
I think she has the hots for me too as she always has a smile for me and we both use pet names like dear and sweety.
I want to go to the next level with this girl, she is so sweet. But how do I ask her to take the next step, I don't think either of us would leave our spouses but a roll in the hay would be nice.

2006-11-01 14:26:20 · 12 answers · asked by AL 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have noticed that when I have a purely sexual relationship with men, they want to ration the visits out to twice a week. It is as if they don't believe that Ionly want sex and that I want a relationship if I want it more than twice a week. All of you are the ones missing out on the action.

2006-11-01 14:26:14 · 5 answers · asked by Laughing Libra 6 in Singles & Dating

she tells you she is going to visit a couple days. you ask where she was going to stay and she tells you with her daughter ,who lives with her father your fiances x who is single

2006-11-01 14:25:47 · 10 answers · asked by Richard L 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Whats a good name for a wedding planner and event planner buisness?

2006-11-01 14:25:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ok i met this boi on saturday and not even 5min later i met his momma.it was stupid of me gettin into his car by not knowin him but he was real str8 pplz. he aint actually take me to my destination(a football game) but i did have fun wit him. that night i met his momma,his brother,his cuzin, and we chilled at the beach for a lil minute. he told me he had to go out of town da next day so he would talk to me when he got back. so today i see a number i dont recognize and when i called back it was his cuzin and he said he thought it was His cuzin(da boi i met) who prob called me.well da cuzin gave me da boi number(who i met) and i txt da boi off my friend phone n he asked me who it was...then i txt him off my phone but he never replied..now i dont kno if he ever got my message or if he erased it by mistake but do yall think i should just lay back and chill?? or try again?? keep in mind i got a boifriend but it aint really workin too well wit him

2006-11-01 14:25:17 · 8 answers · asked by Redd Hott 2 in Singles & Dating