Family & Relationships - 1 November 2006

What are the signs .... so I don't make a complete fool of myself. I don't want to take the first step and find out that he doesn't like me.
PLS help!!!

2006-11-01 14:10:26 · 10 answers · asked by JO K 2 in Singles & Dating

"love+Action" (***)***-*** (name)

It's my aunt, what does love and action mean?

I looked up the number and it turned up a married couple, what does it mean, is she having a threesome with these people?

2006-11-01 14:10:25 · 7 answers · asked by Rex 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

For the past 9 months i've been going through a rough separation/divorce. I wasn't husband or father of the year, but i don't think i deserved to be crucified, or cheated on. Due to some heavy slandering, the ex has managed to get a restraining order and get me in trouble with my CO (military). Since then i've made up my mind to do my four years and get out; start over fresh. I have a year left. Recently i met this nice woman and we have been hanging out a while. At first she was merely a catharsis, but naturally it went further. She even took me to a concert recently for my birthday. She tells me that she loves me, but i have a problem believing that these days. I often refer to women as "the other side." As if i'm at war. She says that she is not going to try to force my hand on anything, but i sense otherwise. I'm not afraid of commitment; i'm just afraid of someone being able to destroy me and cut me off at the knees. I'll be leaving this place for good in a year. What do i do?

2006-11-01 14:10:20 · 16 answers · asked by Thomas K 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you stay with the one who loves you or go back to the one you love?

why or why not? explain/\

2006-11-01 14:10:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-01 14:09:18 · 15 answers · asked by Amanda C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

happy smiling face flys into your room and asks you HOW WAS YOUR DAY ? i want to know everything !!! because i am so tired after wrestling and i come home and have a feeling that i have to live through everything i just did again

2006-11-01 14:09:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My saddest moment happened in 1998 when my grandmother died. How about you? Best answer goes to the most touching saddest moment and no later than year 2000. I just want to share sad experiences with you guys.

2006-11-01 14:08:04 · 14 answers · asked by @n0NyM0u$ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do girls actually like a guy, if he's good-looking, ONLY or is there something else, that you girls look for in a man?

2006-11-01 14:07:03 · 25 answers · asked by K 2 in Singles & Dating

he trys only for a little while. then he always go back to his selfish ways. this time i showed him it was over now he is swearing down that he will change. im tired of this but i do love him. but i feel that its on temporary or could i be wrong. now he thinks he will loose me. but we have broke up before. but this time i started inviting other guys to visit me and he got jealous. so what do you think?

2006-11-01 14:07:00 · 12 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

Should I ask Jordan to go to the movies sometime just as freinds....maybe he would change his mind. I really like him and I dont know if he likes me

2006-11-01 14:06:51 · 12 answers · asked by dcstar_101 1 in Singles & Dating

shelby and her boyfriend r going 2 go c a movie and i need someone 2 go with so i need 2 ask my crush if he will go, but i have no idea how 2 without freaking him out.

2006-11-01 14:06:34 · 8 answers · asked by Sky Eats Delaney! 2 in Singles & Dating

My parents are devoiced and it's hard. How many people out there feel the same way i do? I just don't wanna feel alone ya know? My parents have been devoriced since I was 3 and I'm 13 now.

2006-11-01 14:06:04 · 7 answers · asked by Kai-Kai 2 in Family

one of my friends is going out with a girl who is cheating on him. I dont know if i should tell him because he stole her from one of my other friends. Should i warn him or should i just let it happen naturally? If i warn him i fear that he will not listen to me. help?

2006-11-01 14:05:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Let's say that there's this girl that likes you alot at your school. And you two talk sometimes..you're both pretty shy though. But you still talk..
Well let's say she asks you if you want to go to Disney with her and some other people...what would you say/how would you react?

2006-11-01 14:03:48 · 7 answers · asked by .: Brunette Beauty :. 1 in Singles & Dating

How do u get a girl to like you. I like this girl in school but she doesn't even notice me. I act myself. I aint one of them showoffs who get girls because they think there cool. How do i get her to notice me and then when its the right time ill ask her out?

2006-11-01 14:02:20 · 12 answers · asked by noimus13 1 in Singles & Dating

At the beginning of september in school I met this girl. I liked her and she liked me. I was about to ask her out when someone else beat me to it. We became friends and a few weeks later she broke up with her boyfriend. So I took my chance and gave her a note on a Friday telling her how I had felt. On monday she was trying to avoid me so and would barely speak to me so I told her to forget about it. Now she has a new boyfriend and I am just a friend. what should I do?

2006-11-01 14:02:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would that mean if you sent that to a girl?

2006-11-01 14:00:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

His name is John Lafayette Goodwin lived in Nashville Tn Was Married to a Mary Lynn Kersey. In 1974 or 75 they were married. She was from Arkansas I don’t know how they met or any info on him but his name. He is on my birth certificate My stepfather adopted me and because of an adoption they wont open my records at all. I can’t get anything.
I just want to know who he is and to know if he knew about me…. My mother is real secretive about him and said he abused her. I don’t want money or even a relationship if that’s what he likes I just want him to know he has 4 grandchildren and I want to know if I have any brothers and sisters

2006-11-01 14:00:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this

hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .

so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?

Additional Details

34 minutes ago
and then she just sent this message to him today


"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"

Additional Details

21 minutes ago
i should also add that she has been calling/texting him since the begginning of july . . . he tried to get her back for 2 months after she broke up with him. . . they broke up for no reason . .. she just told him she wanted to date around .. . . and she texted him on what would have been there two year anniversary and reminded him of it

2006-11-01 14:00:17 · 10 answers · asked by osb2904 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 22 and my bf is 21.Should we get enaged after we both graduate and get a job?

2006-11-01 13:59:28 · 21 answers · asked by anne 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a crush on a boy named Jordan at school, he says he doesn't want to go out with me becuz he broke up with his girl Lauren but that was like a month ago. He is my freind and everything and I really like him. I dont know if he likes me what should I do?????

2006-11-01 13:58:33 · 7 answers · asked by dcstar_101 1 in Singles & Dating

An slightly overweight guy.. like 30-40lbs. but dresses appropriately and also is a very clean person.. Very sensable and understanding , sincere and empathic..

And if not why...? I

2006-11-01 13:58:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a crush on a boy named Jordan at school, he says he doesn't want to go out with me becuz he broke up with his girl Lauren but that was like a month ago. He is my freind and everything and I really like him. I dont know if he likes me what should I do?????

2006-11-01 13:57:50 · 13 answers · asked by dcstar_101 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently met a guy, and i think i like him, he also asked me out and talked with me when he saw me online at nite. He told me that he was very hurt in his last relationship and he loved that girl very very much. Though he said it is history now, i coulda help but wonder if he is over her yet. I like him but i dun want to be someone replacement. So how can i tell if one' s over his ex?

2006-11-01 13:57:32 · 9 answers · asked by bebe 1 in Singles & Dating

im friends with this girl and we have alot im common but i dont know if i should ask her out i realy like her but i dont know if she likes me
what should i do?

2006-11-01 13:56:56 · 10 answers · asked by luis 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-husband is veberal & metally abusing our children when he call them he doesn't but grill's them about what we done & etc, he's got them so scared of him & his girlfriend that there afraid to talk to anyone he know what type of question to ask & just isn't acting like the caring father that he should be there so much hate in him & our kids are starting to bottle things up they won't even talk to me anymore, they are starting to hate there father. He has let his girlfriend control everything in his life, she has totally convience him I'm the problem & the kids would be off with them, their not married, they live with his parents, & she has drove a wedge between there father & me, i see how much hurt out kids are in right now I don't know what to do, I need a very good lawyer one that know how to play with these people & is a hard *** in the process, who can put this girlfriend in her place, I have tried everything to get alone with this girl but she is a very controling & a liar.

2006-11-01 13:56:29 · 9 answers · asked by mssassy0104 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm recently divorced so i checked out some internet dating sites. my only question is why do the really ugly women say that they are attractive? somene needs to tell them otherwise. granted i'm just an average white guy but i don't lie to the world about it.

2006-11-01 13:55:23 · 8 answers · asked by poo hat 3 in Singles & Dating

I already asked this qusetion but I left out some info.
Guys if you like a girl how do you act around her? Do you act really weird? Do you get embaressed easily? Do you try to show off in front of her?

See I like this guy(a lot)but he doesnt know I like him, and he does all of those things around me...are these some of the signs that he likes me?

I am too shy to ask him if he does...

By the way he is 13 or 14

2006-11-01 13:55:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK...there a guy in my gym class...he's pretty hot...and sometimes he'll joke around towards me and decided he wanted to be my partner (I was in a group but he kept directing it to me) for the pool wekk (we were rescuing out partners that day)...probably doesn't mean anything, he was just trying to get away form his partner...but theres other girls in the class who are just as good looking if not better than me...and i didn't think he was hot until he came to class in a spedo ;-)

Sometimes he can be a jerk! He was joking around in the lunch line that I stole his lunch and made a big (jokingly) deal about it and the next day I said lunch tasted great in front of a bunch of ppl and he made me look like an idoit cause he didn't remember. Idk...he can just be mean sometimes....

I don't like him, but I don't know how to act around the dude!

WHY WOULD HE BE NICE TO ME, THEN TURN HIS BACK AND BE A JERK FOR NO REASON AT ALL!?!?!?

2006-11-01 13:55:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

List 5 words that describe friendship!!!

ThAnX!!!!

2006-11-01 13:53:57 · 10 answers · asked by diamonds_are_love 2 in Friends