I have a crush on a boy named Jordan at school, he says he doesn't want to go out with me becuz he broke up with his girl Lauren but that was like a month ago. He is my freind and everything and I really like him. I dont know if he likes me what should I do?????
2006-11-01 13:57:50 · 13 answers · asked by dcstar_101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn't like you or he would go out with you after one month.
2006-11-01 14:00:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's nice to have a crush. Jordan is your friend, which gives you a bit of an advantage already. You know him. You just want to know him better. He's fresh off a breakup. He may feel a bit hurt and defeated because things didn't go so well. Maybe he just needs some time to heal a bit. Maybe he just doesn't feel ready to get into another relationship yet. For some, going into another relationship to take away the hurt of a previous one may make things much worse than before. Don't chance at being his rebound relationship. Give him time, talk to him, and let him know you're there for him as a friend (maybe to give help and advice from the woman's point of view). But don't force it if he doesn't want to talk to you about it. If things grow further, they will. His wounds will heal with time.
2006-11-01 14:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by d2c3p0 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Teenage guys and relationships are so funny. They're game players. Write that down, it's golden advice. You could try the reverse psychology on him, and pretend not to be interested, but he may not be the sharpest knife in the block and not take the bait. Or he could be really sincere, and it could just be a really unusual way of saying he wasnt interested in dating you. *shrugs* But if you want to play it straight, and you are the type that wears her heart on her sleeve, then maybe just ask him out on a date, just as friends. you know, to see a movie, or go skating, or even just to hang out at the mall, something you both enjoy casually. And maybe he'll see you in a different light and who knows what might happen. best of luck
2006-11-01 14:04:32 · answer #3 · answered by exaluva 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dcstar: You would be smart to just leave Jordan alone because he asked you to. Jordan has gotten burned from going steady with a girl and is hurting - BIG time. The last thing you want dc, is to be jilted, yourself ! No, Jordan doesn't like you nor does Jordan like himself at this time in his life. Stand back and let him heal from his self-inflicted hurt. good luck to ya - dc !!!
2006-11-01 14:07:40 · answer #4 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First try to be just freinds and invite him like to the movies but as a freind. Then he may change his mind.
2006-11-01 14:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him if there's another reason why he won't go out with you; besides his earlier break up. Maybe suggest that he might consider you a friend rather than a girlfriend. Tell him that you consider him a friend, but that you'd also like to date him.
2006-11-01 14:01:58 · answer #6 · answered by LiveLifeBeGood 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sounds like he still needs time to get over Lauren. Just give it some time.
2006-11-01 14:00:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
boo hoo hoo I need time to get over Lauren...OMG what a whiner! You may like him but I wouldn't be too enthusiastic about a future...so you should move on even if it's hard
2006-11-01 14:05:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
give him some time......he hasn't got over his ex yet....he's under depress.....as a friend, just stand by him n' help him with his situation....understand him....do not be too aggressive.......be patient.....when everything is fine again, then u can ask him the question....hopefully, everything will be perfect....good luck!!!!!!!
2006-11-01 14:02:07 · answer #9 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well don't ask him right away just get to know him and find out what he likes and when the time is right he'll ask you or you'll ask him
2006-11-01 14:00:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋