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Question

Should I ask Jordan to go to the movies sometime just as freinds....maybe he would change his mind. I really like him and I dont know if he likes me

Answer 1

Do what YOU want to do.
Yes, ask him to go with you to the movies.
If you want to know if he likes you then lean your head on his shoulder or get close to him. If you show interest in a clear way that he can see then he will be just as clear with you. If you want to start a friendship then get him alone and talk with him. Tell him that you want to be friends.

If he says yes, then things will be good. If he says no then most guys will let it quietly drop. If by some chance he tries to use that against you then you have the perfect come back. The worst thing you can do to a guy is to tell his friends that in some way he is sexually inept. A simple comeback like, “That guy wants to take me out, are you kidding (then laugh). I heard he can’t get it up.” If you do it in front of his friends he will be so embarrassed and harassed for the rest of the year, maybe longer. You will also have made an enemy, so be careful with this. The greatest protection against sex is to laugh at the male member. He may hate you for it, but unless he is a rapist then he won’t want to have sex. Teenage males do have fragile egos, so laughing at them can cut them to the bone.

You need to answer the question, "Do I want this to go beyond just a friendship, or do I just want to remain friends." He will either go just as far as you are willing to go, or he will make it clear to you if he doesn't want to.

Most boys will want to go out with a girl, any girl. The fear of rejection holds a lot of them back. You have the right idea, ask him for something casual, and do it in private. So he is free to say yes or no without embarrassment. A lot of guys will be a little embarrassed if a girl asks them out, but most will like it, and all of them will get over their embarrassment quickly; if you choose a time and place when you can have a little privacy.

Most men don’t make a great deal of hiding their emotions; it just isn’t in our nature. If you ask a guy a short frank question and he gives a quick answer, then 99% of the time that is the truth.

If you want the relationship to go further than do so at YOUR pace, you make the first move and signal him what you want to do. If you don’t want to go that far then just tell him so. When dealing with men it is best to do it openly and clearly. Almost every man you meet will want to get close to you and eventually have sex, it is a part of out basic design. So it is up to the woman to decide if and when the moment is right. The same goes with the first kiss, and other important events in your relationships.

If you do things simply and clearly then there won’t be any mistakes or mishandling of the relationship. I once had a friend who was a girl and I wanted it to go further, I asked and she told me that she didn’t look at me in that way. I was hurt, but we remained friends. She let me down easy, she didn’t insult me, and she didn’t hold it against me, she also did it in private. She told me clearly and in an easy way that I could understand that she wasn’t interested; no harm, no foul. If she hadn’t moved to another city then we might have stayed friends, I would have wanted to. It might have grown into something else stronger, but probably not. I would have looked to her for signals; in the meantime we would be just friends.

The guys who continue to push it, who want to go right to kissing, are only looking for sex, and those are the guys you want to avoid.

Answer 2

Yes ask him to go to the movies sometime, after all if you don't reach out to him he will never really know will he...?
And he would be a fool not to feel flattered by your wonderful request
Reach out to him Young Lady and go forward had in hand many wonderful friendships have be started that very way,
And with the very passing of time if it is meant to be Love will follow but if not just think you both will have this Beautiful friendship that will last you both a life time.
So yes please reach out to him and ask him.
good luck
And God Bless You Both.

Candyman

Answer 3

tell him you are going just as freinds and then in the middle of the movie kiss him on the cheek and see what happens

Answer 4

It is kinda normal if he is leaving for the summer. Stay in touch if he does but definitely don't "wait" for him. Keep talking to him if he is talking to you but don't hold out for him. If you guys are still talking and as close as you are now at the end of the summer, there is a possibility. Don't let him hurt you before it gets too serious though. Keep your head up and focus on yourself. If he doesn't want you, it is his loss.

Answer 5

Don't ask him! If he likes you, then let him be the man and chase you around the block. I know this sounds a little harsh but don't act too desperate! Good luck!

Answer 6

well i didnt see your other question so i really dont know your situation but i think asking someone to the movies as friends is an awesome start! good luck!

Answer 7

yes just ask him to go to the movies with u because you want to go and you dont want to go alone. then at the end you can tell him do you want to be my boyfreind and go from there. that is what i did to my girlfreind and it worked.

Answer 8

Its alway safe to say "go as friends". But it might end up something more. One Bucket of popcorn is something to think of

Answer 9

Yes you should

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Answer 10

Yeah, ask him, why not?