one of my friends is going out with a girl who is cheating on him. I dont know if i should tell him because he stole her from one of my other friends. Should i warn him or should i just let it happen naturally? If i warn him i fear that he will not listen to me. help?
2006-11-01 14:05:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WARN HIM ONCE... IF HE DOESNT LISTEN LET HIM LEARN THE HARD WAY .. AND THEN WHEN IT SLAPS HIM IN THE FACE .. TELL HIM YOU TOLD HIM SO .. HE'LL LISTEN TO YOU THE NEXT TIME
2006-11-01 14:07:56 · answer #1 · answered by MiZ_PuMpKiN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything. Act like you don't know. When he discovers this information on his own, act as if you didn't know.
Been there. Done that. Your friendship will suffer if you get into this situation.
You may think you are being a friend by telling him, but I promise you will lose him as a friend if you do tell him. I've been there......I know what will happen. I could tell you my long story, but it would just bore you, but most people will tell you.......stay out of it.
Just turn a blind eye and pretend you never knew......and then just be supportive when he does find out.
2006-11-01 14:10:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is always an uncomfortable position to be in. No matter what you decide, you'll probably feel you made the wrong choice. I think it's usually best to stay quiet for a number of reasons: you may have the facts wrong, it's not your responsibility to tell him, and the "clues" will probably/eventually be there for him anyway. If he does start asking you questions though you probably shouldn't lie to protect her.
2006-11-01 14:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by clueless_nerd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough one man. If he steels a girl from another friend, and expects her to be faithful. I would say he is pretty dense.
I also understand your desire to let him know what is going on. I'm also a firm believer in carma!! Maybe if he learns what it feels like to have a girl stolen, from him he won't do it again?
2006-11-01 14:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by Richard W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy, he particularly is genuinely in love along with her. I fantastically much (scratch that) in no way seen absolutely everyone like him. he's committed to her happiness and not his very own. regrettably, there's no longer something that is going to alter him. i replaced into only like him. If he ever reveals yet another lady that he ought to love, he can escape the comparable destiny I had. you won't be able to truly do something for him. only wait to be certain what is going to take place.
2016-12-16 17:51:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would just bring it up in conversation as a "what if" proposition. Everybody likes to speculate about other people's relationships. Naturally your friend would put the question to his girlfriend, just to see what she would say. Try it.
2006-11-01 14:12:29 · answer #6 · answered by Ashleigh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mind your business, he knew what he was getting when he got with her, and if he thought he was so special, well i guess he will figure it out in the end. This is just her shootin her regular. Let it go and don't say a word, he will only end up angry with you if you tell. God bless
2006-11-01 14:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What goes around comes around. He stole her so he deserves to be cheated on.
2006-11-01 14:08:30 · answer #8 · answered by Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is getting around like that. Hell, try to blackmail her and get some for yourself. You'll find new friends but you might never get such an opportunity again.
2006-11-01 14:09:52 · answer #9 · answered by Opensesame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i think you should tell him he does not deserved to be cheated on!!! by best friend got cheated on they were crushed when they found out themself...they said it would be better if someone would have told them
good luck i hopr everything turns out ok!
2006-11-01 14:09:16 · answer #10 · answered by InlovewithJESUS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋