There is a woman who works for me (I am her boss) and whenever she is in my office she is always stretching and putting her arms over her head. I know she knows that I am attracted -not sure if the reverse is remotely true for her... but is this just teasing/flirting ..or is it nerves?..
ps we are both MarriedwKids...hmmm
2006-11-01 14:31:51 · 16 answers · asked by D M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are really close to stepping in a pile that you won't be able to wipe off...
It could cost you your marriage, your job, your house, your paycheck!
Think about that before wondering what that women's intentions are!
2006-11-01 14:36:35 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me likes she's flirting. I mean come now, she seems to only do it when she's in ur office, plus u say she knows ur attracted to her so I would say that ur employer is flirting with u.
Oh and just for the record- just because the both of u are married that doesn't mean u can't be attracted to other people( ur not dead) U ask if it's flirting, teasing or nerves. It's all 3 she has a lot of nerve to tease and flirt by stretching and putting her arms over her head. She wants and knows ur gonna look she may even be trying to reel u in
Just don't cross the line it's fun to flirt it makes u realize that u still got it =-)
2006-11-01 14:45:36 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All three,and more than your nerves should be working on you sense you're married.She wants to see what you are going to do.Are you going to give her a reason to cry sexual harassment?Or are you going to be her boss and treat her like an employee?
I'm going to tell you something you should already know.Women have this way flirting that gets you interested enough that you want to flirt back.Once your interest is peaked enough for you to flirt with them,they flip the script and make it seen as though you were the one that came on to them.Your married,she's married,what can possibly come out of this except sex,sneaking around behind your partners back.Not to mention the children you will be putting in the middle of all of this.and one or both of you destroying your marriage.Whether she loves her husband or not is not the issue.What does matter is,do you love your wife enough to be faithful?Is getting involved with this woman more important than what you have at home?Think before you leap,and be ready to except the consequences for what you're thinking about doing.
2006-11-01 15:04:42 · answer #3 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably is flirting but you really need to look at the expression on her face when she is doing this. If she is looking at you with a "come get me" smile and eyes- she is flirting. If she has just a smile or a relaxed look on her face she may be just streching. Since you are her boss- she may be playing off the fact that she knows that you like her. There are women out there that want to get ahead and they use what they can to do it. She may be just playing the part for you so you will look at her and want to do things like promote her or give her a raise. Don't ruien your marriage over it!
2006-11-01 14:42:12 · answer #4 · answered by Tammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could very well be attracted to you as well, as body language and getting close to one's personal space is a sign. The fact the you both are married means nothing nowadays - I am not condoning this type of behavior, but the fact is relationships die and others begin to form. It is sad that marrieages are not taken serious enough by both partners. You choose how you want to handle these subtle signs of attraction. Think about the consequences before you make your choices.
2006-11-01 14:44:33 · answer #5 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 04:49:01 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is what it sounds like, but leave her alone. You're both married and she could say it's sexual harassment if you make a move. You're her superior so leave it at that. She may just want to get ahead and it's possible this is how she did it at her previous job.
2006-11-01 14:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by mergirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What ever happened to being professional at the office? Take the picture of your wife and kids out of the desk drawer and back on your desk, and leave junior in you pants and out of hers. Just remember your family loves you. Leave the flirtations to your wife, and save yourself a lot of headaches.
2006-11-01 14:36:52 · answer #8 · answered by exaluva 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She sounds like she is flirting with you. Keep your thoughts out of the gutter and get back to work.
2006-11-01 14:38:10 · answer #9 · answered by flutterby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it wrong to flirt with your boss (or vice versa)?
2006-11-01 14:44:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋