I have this girl I work with, I find myself really attracted to her. Problem is we are both married and have kids. I have 2 adopted girls, she has 2 boys and is married to a lawyer. This lady even knows my wife and talks to her everyday.
I think she has the hots for me too as she always has a smile for me and we both use pet names like dear and sweety.
I want to go to the next level with this girl, she is so sweet. But how do I ask her to take the next step, I don't think either of us would leave our spouses but a roll in the hay would be nice.
2006-11-01 14:26:20 · 12 answers · asked by AL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sure, a roll in the hay would be nice, but is it really worth losing your wife and your daughters for a brief moment's pleasure? Think long and hard before you do anything to jeapordize your current situation. If you're asking for ways to go about setting up an adulterous situation, I don't think you'll find much help here, IMHO, but seriously, think about it. And if you're smart, that's all you'll do. Just think about her when you're with your wife. Physically, she won't know the difference who you're thinking of. Just like you don't know what's going on between her ears when the two of you are intimate. Most affairs are best left where they belong...between your ears. Good luck!
2006-11-01 14:30:35 · answer #1 · answered by slowfreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything that you do (good or bad) will come back to you. Think about it.
In the meantime, do you have a conscience? Do you have a heart? How do you look yourself, or your wife and kids, in the face every day knowing you would commit adultery in a second if given the opportunity?
I can only hope this girl you have plans for, shuts you down. You are a sad, sad little boy. And a pathetic excuse for a human being too. Grow up and get a life. And while your at it, let your wife off the hook and offer her a divorce so she can find a real man. She surely deserve one after putting up with the likes of you.
2006-11-01 14:40:32 · answer #2 · answered by gailfrances 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you have an affair with her you will destroy her life. Hello! She is married to a lawyer! And honey, you just think she's sweet. You don't live with her. My husband always says he fell in love with me because I was sooo sweet, and vice versa, but eventually he found out what an attitude I have. Luckily for me it turned him on, LOL. Now we just irritate each other. He can be such an a**hole! And of course I can be a bit*h with a capital B! No one is who you think they are so don't be stupid! Go home and kiss your wife and hug your kids. Think of your family and stop being selfish. You can get some from your wife. Why stray? If you must, close your eyes and fantasize.
2006-11-01 14:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by Jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WALK AWAY -- You chose your wife, Put your time and energy into your wife and family.
Life is about choices not just a roll in the hay..........
Think Wife
Think Family
Think Diseases
And what about work, do they condone that type of behavior there?
2006-11-01 15:13:59 · answer #4 · answered by Suzi W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your treading on thin ice. If you have any sense you'll back away from this before it becomes a wedge in your marraige. Think of the reprocussions and end result of misguided indulgance. If your ok with your marriage why are you flirting out of it? If she is cool with hers, why is she straying? Remember, sometimes when you unwrap the candy it doesn't look so good. Stay put with what you have.
2006-11-01 14:33:16 · answer #5 · answered by plitsmay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is a choice...nobody is twisting your arm, so choose to be a scumbag or a husband....its up to you.
From what you say about a roll in the hay, sounds like you have already decided.
2006-11-01 14:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, just leave her as thought candy and nothing more. You want to lose your kids? Would you want some jerk to cheat on your daughters after THEY get married? I'll bet not. So why set that kind of example??
2006-11-01 14:30:46 · answer #7 · answered by DMBthatsme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you want to committ adultery huh? Break your marriage contract? Cheat on not only your spouse but your children as well? What a GREAT father you are NOT. You suck
2006-11-01 14:29:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did u even get married for if your goona cheat on your wife i'm sure u wouldn't it like if your wife did to you
2006-11-01 14:30:01 · answer #9 · answered by OU812 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no next step. Keep it in your pants and stay home.
2006-11-01 14:36:11 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋