Family & Relationships - 27 October 2006

recently i have met a guy who is loving, caring and sensitive. i come from a rather conservative back ground and a oriental bringing up if u wouldlike, my boyfreind of 3 months now, is asking for a little more than a kiss or a hug, and i am not so sure i am ready, i am scared that if i give him more than that he will think i am cheap, or i will lose him. i think i am in love with him, and its weird, he said that he expresses his feelings best in a physical manner, and that he can stop anything in the whole wide world but that ( he quit drinking ) because i asked him, but no way the physical part. which scares me. i have no idea what to do, please bare in mind that he loves me too, i know it and i see it in his eyes whenever we r togather. HELP:)

2006-10-27 12:26:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife's parents raised her under an environment where she was not respected. Her main complaint is that her parents "never listen" (to her). I believe her saying that she "hates her parents" is just an expression of how much she wants to fix her relation with them. I don't know how to get involved to help without being pushy and reminding her of so strong feelings.

2006-10-27 12:26:02 · 9 answers · asked by johnk 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My colours for my upcomming July wedding will be black red pink and white. My brides maid dresses will be black and the flowers will be red white and light9almost white0 shade of pink. I want a very simple cake, white icing with maybe red flowers on top. Any recomendations for decorations, favors, etc. in those colours?

2006-10-27 12:25:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i want to forget my ex-girlfriend who is married with a child now, but still i cant forget her. any1 2 help out there?

2006-10-27 12:24:52 · 14 answers · asked by Suhail 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my b/f for about 4 years, we both still live at home but i'm planning to move out soon, and he's not. His mom is going through a divorce now and she's going through alot. His dad is a real jerk, he's verbally abusive to my b/f's mom. She has medical problems, but she works and runs a business, that she might not have after this. it's just she gets depressed alot. My boyfriend dosen't want to leave her alone, so he's not planning to move out for awhile. He feels bad to leave his mom all by herself. He works, takes care of the house, he cooks, cleans, fixed things around the house......so he's not really living off of her. He just wants to watch over her. But, I'm just afraid that we're never going to have our own life and that she'll just be living with us. I've talked to him about it before but he always tells me that he feels the need to take care of his mom just like she took care of him since he was a baby. I don't know what to do, I don't want to be selfish and mean

2006-10-27 12:24:47 · 15 answers · asked by Jozey G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He signs on to a site similar to Myspace, and those comments make me feel uncomfortable...is that normal? I know someone will always look hotter, but I thought when you're in a serious relationship, one wouldn't or shouldn't be interested in those type of stuff. Help, I'm confused.

2006-10-27 12:24:11 · 16 answers · asked by *Dre@* 1 in Singles & Dating

My sisters coming over, and I've spent the enire day getting drunk, what's the fastest way to sober up

2006-10-27 12:23:51 · 15 answers · asked by martin 4 in Friends

I don't consider myself a materialistic nor superficial woman, but is funny to me that during the summer there was this guy hitting on me and I didn't really considered him attractive, and recently I saw him at the parking lot with a brand new car and I said to myself "Why didn't I hit on that guy?".

I have fallen in love with guys with crappy cars. When they are young to me it symbolizes that they don't worry about life that much and they are laid back which is cool to me, but when they reach certain age like 25 and older and I see them with a crappy rusty car then that's when I start to worry.

2006-10-27 12:23:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 12:22:59 · 2 answers · asked by MM 5 in Singles & Dating

I like this boy. He's the hottest boy in school and every girl likes him but I know he don't like them back. I go over his house with my sister and we talk on the phone sometimes. But sometimes I just think that he's just trying to be nice. I don't wanna ask him because that'll make me look a little to forward. we went to the movies once. he wants to go again.

2006-10-27 12:22:46 · 8 answers · asked by akafrog91 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and this guy freak danced at the dance like 5 times and slow danced to so i started liken him ..? so i called him .we had a funny conversation!!! then this hole week well monday threw wendsaday .he would see me an say hi briana in that lil anoyying long way and give me this wink and hella cute face. then on wendsday he winked at me but said nothing to me. an after school came up to me with out saying a word and gave me a hug .i walked away n he did to and we laughfed !! then the next day i left him a message saying i wanted to talk to him after skool and. the we met up and in a cute sexy voice he asked if i called. n i tol him yea n he said wassup n i tol him i um wana tell u sumtin then mi friend kaori said u like him .n i was smilin sayin i dont then he huged me n said u like me lookin all happy n **** !!! n then i gave him a note sayin if he liked me back?? and i liked him !! then today he hasnt said a word to me n my friends tink he like me. kori tink he tinkin of me in a gf way

2006-10-27 12:22:14 · 6 answers · asked by ~Queen B~ 1 in Singles & Dating

I am meeting this guy for the first time, its not really a date but more of a aquantence to see how we get along. To know of we could be b/f g/f. My question is we are meeting in a public place at a coffee shop and walk the town get to know eachother. I am going to see him from 12 in the afternoon to maybe four. My question is how long do you think I should make the day to get to know him, before we start dating. Is 12 to four p.m. to long or to short?
By the way we are both 25.

2006-10-27 12:22:00 · 16 answers · asked by Imyourfantasy4u 2 in Singles & Dating

and dont tell me roses and chocolate. i mean really, really to like me. we talk, and we laugh together, shes great. but i want more, and she knows that. how do i get her to notice me in that way? she loves me as a friend, and im afraid thats it. I NEED HER. its like that. I have to have her. i just have to. so me and her are on great terms, as friends. how do i get her into my arms?

2006-10-27 12:21:32 · 10 answers · asked by Uncle Dan 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont reALLY KNOW IF HE LIEKS ME HELP WHAT SHOULD I DO!!

2006-10-27 12:20:31 · 8 answers · asked by Briana 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 12:20:22 · 5 answers · asked by alice g 1 in Friends

CA resident. Never married. I understand that I'm at least responsible for his health/dental insurance (which what I've been taking care of), but does the mom require more? I provide just as much as she. She's married & has another child. I'm single. I have huge projects I want to do to benefit my son (11yrs old), but it would require every cent to put into? Want to file for joint-custody stay, but trying to avoid all drama possible.

2006-10-27 12:20:02 · 21 answers · asked by aCe ♠ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

She says that he is like a brother to her. Her dog and his dog are best buddies. Sometimes he hires her to help with his business. At the end of the day sometimes they get dinner together or watch a video. Before we started dating, she would sleep on his couch sometimes if it got late and she didn't want to drive home. She cooked a dinner for both of us to introduce us. She keeps trying to fix him up with her girlfriends and help him out with dating and stuff. I know she wouldn't cheat on me. I don't want to tell her to end her friendship. And actually in a way, I think he's a benefit to our relationship cause he thinks that I'm good for her. Should I ask her to limit the time she spends with him for the sake of appearances? Should I say that she can work for him, but can't watch a video with him? Where should I draw the line, if anywhere?

2006-10-27 12:17:18 · 6 answers · asked by pamgissa 3 in Singles & Dating

My mom got married a couple of months ago and I LOVE MY STEPDAD...... well in the beginning me and my step sis were like bestfriends.... but her mom hates my mom and wont let her come around me...and my stepdad does nothing about it..... I want to have a relationship with my stepsister because her mom hates us she hates us...shes a 5 months younger then me... and is going threw the same problems I went threw.... what do i do


ALSO SHE DOESNT LIVE WITH ME

2006-10-27 12:17:13 · 9 answers · asked by ballerinagirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know this guy and i really like him and care for him so much. But we have religious issues within our families, and I think it's best i forget him for the sake of my parents. But i dont know what to do?. Should i still talk to him even if my parents don't like me marrying him?. They know him as my friend but not that i like him a lot.

2006-10-27 12:17:09 · 6 answers · asked by dreamin of u 1 in Friends

he is acting really off. like everything is happy and nice and then all of a sudden doom and gloom and i've done something wrong again. i didn't tell him what was up one time because HE had upset me and i thought he'd know why, 5 minutes later i was gonna tell him and he said it was too late, he didn't wanna know. cut to three days later and he's still pissed, he says that i always do this, that i never get better. tonight he's pissed at me over me being online because i hardly go to see him online, but i wanted to talk to him, but he's like 'talk to you later. bye'. if i dont call one day, the next day is hell like 'i cant believe i put up with your ****'. then two days are bad, and he's ok and happy again. he doesn't even listen to what i say, he just gets pissed at what he thinks i'm gonna do. not even things that i have done. if the phone is engaged at 10pm he thinks that i had an affair.

2006-10-27 12:16:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what does it mean when a guy says "she's kind of crazy and wild but she keeps me interested" and does he like this girl even though he says she's his good friend and is confused whether she's more than just a friend?

2006-10-27 12:16:12 · 9 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

OK OK I POSTED THE SAME TYPE OF QUESTION OVER 12 times but im havin no luck. Whenever i try to talk to this gal, i just freak out coz shes wit her friends. Oh yeah and shes shy 2 in front of guys.(P.E CLASS). Plz help me, coz she knows that i like her, and im afraid of rejection 2.

2006-10-27 12:16:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 12:16:00 · 6 answers · asked by lil_kong2 1 in Singles & Dating

Seems to be ok. She's a little bit controlling though. But other than that its ok. Please share similar experience...

2006-10-27 12:15:40 · 5 answers · asked by Whatta 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 12:15:10 · 12 answers · asked by t_o_w_e_r_i_n_g 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Does this guy like me or just ,,,,?
ok so in my class i sit in the back and there is noone behind me. and i walk into class and the guy starts a lil conversatoin with me, then i got sit down adn in the middle of the class i look at were he is sitting( in front to the right of me) and he's looking at me, so i smile and he smiles and wave, and today i walk into class and he walks up to me and ask me if i find his paper sexy??? wth does he like me or what is that>?

2006-10-27 12:14:28 · 7 answers · asked by alexandra 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 12:14:01 · 6 answers · asked by Tamara F 1 in Family

Me and this guy freak dance d at the dance like 5 times n slow danced to so i started liken him ..? so i called him we had a funny conversation!!! then this hole week well monday threw wendsaday he would see me n say hi briana in that lil anoyying long way and give me this wink and hella cute face. then on wendsday he winked at me but said nothing to me n after school came up to me with out saying a word and gave me a hug i walked away n he did to and we laughfed !! then the next day i lkeft hima message sayin i wanted to talk to him after skool and the we met up and in a cute sexy voic he asked if i called n i tol him yea n he said wassup n i tol him i um wana tell u sumtin then mi friend kaori said u like him n i was smilin sayin i dont then he huged me n said u like me lookin all happy n **** !!! n then i gave him a note sayin if he liked me back?? and i liked him !! then today he hasnt said a word to me n all my friends think he like me!! but kaori thinks he thinkin of me n a gf

2006-10-27 12:13:34 · 6 answers · asked by ~Queen B~ 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 12:12:44 · 1 answers · asked by dunk_brown 1 in Singles & Dating

I am definitly going to my friends birthday party, I rarely go to parties! But this girl I cant stand will be coming to. She wasnt really invited in the first place. My friend told her that she could only have a certain amount of people come and she was not invited. Basically, the girl kept bringing it up throughout the week and finally got on my friends nerves. She was invited and she said she is more then likely to come. I hate this girl! She whines and complains all the time (she always has a whiny tone when she talks)! She thinks everything should go her way! When she asked my friend if I was coming and my friend said "yes, she is the first person I wanted to invite", she said "ioh" in an snooty, rude way. Anyways, how do I put up with this brat at the party?! Its not to long, but Im worried that I wont have a good time because of her! Plus, she will be tagging around with my friend and keep me away. Any suggestions?

2006-10-27 12:12:31 · 21 answers · asked by Autumn 4 in Friends