He signs on to a site similar to Myspace, and those comments make me feel uncomfortable...is that normal? I know someone will always look hotter, but I thought when you're in a serious relationship, one wouldn't or shouldn't be interested in those type of stuff. Help, I'm confused.
2006-10-27 12:24:11 · 16 answers · asked by *Dre@* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-27 12:25:56 · answer #1 · answered by WhereTheCashAt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a bit immature, but normal for a guy. They tend to speak without thinking first. Plus with it being online he knows he never has a chance with that person anyway. If it makes you feel better, just imagine next time he tells someone something along those lines (online) that there is a big, fat, hairy dude on the other end beating off to what he says. Maybe even tell him that - if anything he might think twice in the future (and it will bring a smile to your face).
2006-10-27 19:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by Michaela 4120 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Heck no! That's just as bad as cheating on you. Yeah, some people will always look better than you, but he shouldn't go off telling them they do. I would break up if I were you. But first make sure it's not just a big misunderstanding and that it's not someone else that is making the comments.
2006-10-27 19:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by Kit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im really not trying to be mean....but i don't think that is right even if you have a talk with him and he says he won't say those things online again the chances are he will, and he'll hide it from you! I say your best chance is just to break up with him, if you don't it will just lead into a horriable relashionship im so sorry to say! Please just do what you feel is the best thing to do! Im sorry he's doing this to you and i hope you guys work out your problems! Bye-Take Care*
2006-10-27 19:28:12 · answer #4 · answered by elise(= 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
abby m is right, he should respect your feelings even if to him it's just a bit of harmless fun.
Tell him how you feel and that you'd like him to quit it. If he ignores you on this thing, how will he behave on something more serious? This could be the start of a slippery downwards slope...
2006-10-27 19:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if he IS interested in it,he should respect u and ur feelings.u dont say,"man,that boys fine!",rite in front of his face,so he shouldnt do all that 2 u.tell him that it makes u uncomfortable wen he says things like that about other women and that u kno that he will think that about sum1 if he chooses 2 but that ud rather not hear him say that sum other chick is hot in front of u,cuz its really disrespectful.if he gets mad @ u,i suggest that hes not even worth ur time--nor is any guy,but hey,we girls do make mistakes.
2006-10-27 19:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to make you feel insecure, knowing there are better looking women anywhere, compared to ANYONE, there are also better looking MEN anywhere, for ANYONE, he is insecure as HELL-dump him now! He is too immature for you to have to ask this question, especially when you know the answer to it.
2006-10-27 19:28:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He also posted here the other night, telling a woman she had a "nice asss"
2006-10-27 19:28:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not appropriate. Distract him. Get him away from the computer. Tell him what you think about this behavior.
2006-10-27 19:28:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are guys, and words are just words, unless he acts on them, it should be harmless, and you shouldnt really worry and dont try to control what he say or does, a healthy relationship is based on trust.
2006-10-27 19:58:55 · answer #10 · answered by nonsteroidalantianalgesic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are insecure, and he is shallow, as well as uncaring where your feelings are concerned. You should both grow up. Sorry, you asked.
2006-10-27 19:38:24 · answer #11 · answered by Darryl L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋