recently i have met a guy who is loving, caring and sensitive. i come from a rather conservative back ground and a oriental bringing up if u wouldlike, my boyfreind of 3 months now, is asking for a little more than a kiss or a hug, and i am not so sure i am ready, i am scared that if i give him more than that he will think i am cheap, or i will lose him. i think i am in love with him, and its weird, he said that he expresses his feelings best in a physical manner, and that he can stop anything in the whole wide world but that ( he quit drinking ) because i asked him, but no way the physical part. which scares me. i have no idea what to do, please bare in mind that he loves me too, i know it and i see it in his eyes whenever we r togather. HELP:)
2006-10-27 12:26:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he's running game. If he loves you he will wait until you are DEFINITELY ready. If the only way to keep him in your life is to become physical with him, I say get rid of him now it's only been 3 months. So since he can only express his feeling physically, will you have a wedding ceremony or a sexathon to exchange vows?? I don't think your wedding guests will go for that. If he can't respect your decision, get out now. True Love Waits!!!
Best Wishes!!!
2006-10-27 12:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel like you are ready then do want you have to because you have to do it one day but take your time but don't take to long because he will think that your trying to waste he's time.if he's trying to give you more than hugs and kiss then that means to me he's tryng to get to know you on a diffrernt level and if he likes what he gets then he will stick with you.
2006-10-27 19:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by ayrionna b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if youre not ready then dont let no one force it on you, you are the one to make that choice, so choose wisely, if he loves you like he said he will respect your wishes.
2006-10-27 19:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by nonsteroidalantianalgesic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's playing games
hold on a while and see if he stays around
2006-10-27 19:37:01 · answer #4 · answered by annie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be honest to your boy
2006-10-27 19:28:52 · answer #5 · answered by The King of Games 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋