2006-10-27 12:15:10 · 12 answers · asked by t_o_w_e_r_i_n_g 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The "chemistry"? Emotionally, physically what?
If you've got to ask yourself, then it's not the right time.
Immature love says "I love you because I need you", mature love says "I want you because I love you".
2006-10-27 12:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really asking this question, then you better not get married. It's really as simple as that. Getting married will not solve any chemistry between you and your chick. Although you love her, getting married is not the answer to your problem. If the chemistry is not there, it's more than likely not going to be. You can't change her so don't even try.
Hope this helps.
2006-10-27 19:21:45 · answer #2 · answered by voidone76108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's "chemistry" to you?
Look at your relationship, and ask yourself if you can imagine putting up with this person for the rest of your life. I say "putting up", because you have to be realistic in your assessment of not only the good qualities - but weaknesses/annoyances/not so good things as well. If you can accept this person as a whole, and not pick and choose of what you want to keep the same, and what you want changed - then you're on your way to a good marriage relationship.
Bottom line is - if it "feels" right, you're on the right track. If something doesn't quite "add up" - hold off. Learn to trust yourself on this.
2006-10-27 19:26:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all marriage is not about chemistry. It is about commitment. YOU need to know if you are able to commit to this woman for the rest of your life despite her looks, money, etc.
Is she the type of woman that will be patient, kind and accept your b.s. Will she be there with you even if you don't have two pennies to rub together? Those are some of the questions you should ask yourself. If you say no to any of these then you just need to be by yourself so that you can have time to think about what is important.
2006-10-27 19:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by ShacklesOff.com 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question is, how can you love someone romantically and not have chemistry. If the chemistry isn't there, then you know the answer.
2006-10-27 19:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both love each other and want to get married, what is the question ?
There is no one better qualified to decide than the two of you..
2006-10-27 19:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's totally cliche, but you just know. You can't imagine your life without that person. You love them even when you don't like them. You want to wake up with them every day and go to be with them every night.
I have been married for 6 years...
2006-10-27 19:49:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to know ur chemistry put ur love for LITMUS TEST
if u get BLUE (if u feel need of eachother)..then go ahead
if u get RED (if u are still in confusing state)......then take time to think over marriage
all the best!
2006-10-27 19:35:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You fool! Dont get married. Its cheaper when you seperate.
Take it from a well experienced guy
2006-10-27 19:19:43 · answer #9 · answered by petforyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're still asking that question you're not ready yet.
When it's the right person and the right time in your life....you know it and you don't have to ask anybody.
2006-10-27 19:17:24 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋