Family & Relationships - 24 October 2006

Me and this guy have been talking since may, things were wonderful, we both told each other how we liked the relationship. he sent me sweet messages daily, email, very passionate everything was sincere. He told me he loved me first, and said i treated him better than anyone in a long time . i just knew things were gonna last. he told me ew timeshe wanted to be with me for a long time. then things started gettin difficult, we didnt talk about our little problems such as me being pushy, and him being sarcastic from time to time. that led to other minor disagreements, that would turn into us ignoring each other or the other hanging up. After 3 weeks of this off and on bickering over nothing and him not wanting to talk about it, i wrote him an email saying i would end it if we couldnt resolve the issues. he replied he loved me but wasnt in love with me enough to change. i am devastated. Is he beign truthful or hurt that i told him i would leave and hes lashing out?

2006-10-24 14:12:58 · 3 answers · asked by sthernbrunette1 1 in Singles & Dating

well here is the thing...about 3 people have told me that they think he likes me, but i dont know, BECAUSE he has a tendancy to not think very much about girls and he sometimes leads girls on...we used to be really good friends and then he went to high school and got an ego... so i dont know if he likes me or not because he ditched his date to come with me, he had his arm around me 3 times, and he gave me like the biggest hug when he left, he came to find me before he left too...soooooooooooooo i am confused because i dont know if he is leading me on or not or if he even likes me

2006-10-24 14:12:48 · 14 answers · asked by ~Pitbull 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been bugging my mom for a pet for like, EVER!!! But she won't budge. what should I do???

HELP!

2006-10-24 14:12:37 · 8 answers · asked by baxterlove411 1 in Family

my bf only wants one thing, sex.i know its important but i dunt wanna do it before marriage, i love him so much and cant live without him. so please give me advice on what shud i do! and its been 9 months together n i dunt wanna loose him, he just doesnt understand my feelings!!

2006-10-24 14:12:31 · 17 answers · asked by meee 2 in Singles & Dating

If your wife/husband caught you in bed with another would you "keep at it" after she/he stormed out or would you go after her/him???

2006-10-24 14:12:07 · 24 answers · asked by Michael 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend and I thought it would be a hoot to pour liquid nitrogen into the ventilation system. We thought that it would look like a winter wonderland inside BUT WHEN WE WENT IN EVERYONE WAS DEAD, DEAD. THEY HAD THESE LOOKS ON THEIR FACES AS IF THEIR HEARTS HAD FROZEN WHILE THEY WERE BEATING. THEY LOOKED LIKE THEY WERE IN AGONY OH GOD, WHY DID WE USE SO MUCH LIQUID NITROGEN? THIS ISN'T MY FAULT RIGHT? RIGHT?

2006-10-24 14:11:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the thing is i go to a small jr high school I only have 12 people in my class and the only class they split students up for is study hall and i have the 2 hotest girls in my study hall and the teacher is never around and i can feel tha one is sinding body languedge but i cant read it plz help me

2006-10-24 14:10:45 · 13 answers · asked by gusqb14 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well me and this guy have been hanging out a lot lately and i think i really do like him, and i even get butterflies when i see him, and i havent kissed him yet, my choice one because i dont want it to lead to other things too soon, and two i dont want to ruin anything and i really want him to respect me, should i wait to kiss him after we start dating or does it matter, does it make me look easy?

2006-10-24 14:10:40 · 14 answers · asked by flirtinbabe286 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in highschool, and their is a girl I go to school with that I really like. I'm positive she likes me, but the only problem is that she is really nervous around me. I really dont know why, she's very pretty and I know she has dated a few guys before me. I always talk to her friends to see whats up, and they are always like "she is so scared to talk to you, she's intimidated by your looks" Its awful, any tips would be much appreciated.

2006-10-24 14:10:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 14:10:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What is going on..HELP

2006-10-24 14:10:04 · 2 answers · asked by Oceanbreeze 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 14:10:00 · 14 answers · asked by j b 5 in Marriage & Divorce

if you found a text message on your husbands phone to his ex-girlfriend that says...."Hey baby i miss u. I miss ur face and ur taste" but when confronted he said that it didnt mean anything and that if he was trying to hide it that he would have erased it. I cant help but think that he wants to get back with her ( they have been broken up for over 5 years)

2006-10-24 14:09:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i like it when i have a bf, they are always by me but my other friend hates it... what do u think???

2006-10-24 14:08:05 · 4 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

i broke up with my girlfriend i really liked her but i didnt want to date her anymore i feel sad that i did .but when i see her she ignores me and she looks like nothing happened were friends but she doesnt talk to me. i dont always feel sad but she always ignores me.how can i find out if she is sad mad happy or anything and she lgnores me when i talk to her.what i do .and we dont want to get together again we broke up 3 times know .an di like this other girl too she is new and is nice.so what i do.

2006-10-24 14:07:57 · 1 answers · asked by bloo b 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 14:07:34 · 6 answers · asked by dorothy c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

PLEASE ANSWER THIS A SMALL ANSWER IS BETTER THEN NO ANSWER!!!! I USUALLY ONLY SEE THIS GUY AT MY NEIGHBORS CHURCH AND ONLY ON SUNDAYS!!! BUT THERE ARE OTHER TIMES THAT I SEE HIM!! BUT USUALLY ADULTS R ALWAYS AROUND!! SO WHEN & WHERE DO I KISS HIM!!!

2006-10-24 14:07:32 · 14 answers · asked by Tammi G 1 in Friends

My Bf called me his ex girls name. they have been nroken up for about 7 years. I asked him a question after we just finish making love and he said the girls name then said eeeeeeee after that. Is he cheating on me or is it jsut a honest mistake like he said.

2006-10-24 14:06:37 · 3 answers · asked by lovelydivine21 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, there's this guy.. well... at the bginning of the school year... I was standing around waiting for my friend.. then as he walked by.... he said "hi" and waved. Then the next day he was constantly making meaningless convorsation. A couple weeks ago as he was leaving, he told me "bye" and waved. Yesterday, at the Pep Ralley for our last FB game he was constantly staring at me, and when they called his name (hes on the fb team) as he got up he was looking at me w/ the sweetest smile. Does he like me? Or am I extremly love struck?

2006-10-24 14:06:34 · 5 answers · asked by Simply Amazing...* 1 in Singles & Dating

so i was out with this guy and we were laying down on the couch, it was like 4 or 5 in the morning, and we were just talking. now my stomach had been making little noises for a while because it was late and i was hungry, but all of a sudden during a pause in the conversation my stomach makes this quiet noise that sounded like a fart!!! i was embarassed so i just started talking again. i'm pretty sure the guy heard it but didn't want to say anything. i didn't know what to do!!! i couldn't help the fact that my stomach made that noise!! i didn't want to be like "excuse me" and make him think that i did in fact fart when i didn't, but i also didn't want to be like "that was just my stomach" and make him think i was trying to cover it up.
so did i do the right thing?
whats the best way to handle awkward stomach noises??
did i just ruin my chances with this guy??

2006-10-24 14:06:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Avator's my wife. Love her. she is Hafsa. Lot of people ask.

I'm 31 years old and my wife is 24. We have 4 children with twins. Have been married for 6 yrs.

My wife has 3 sisters and a brother. One of the sisters and brother are married. My other two sister in laws are 17 & 15 yrs and they have been living with us for the past six years.
I treat my two sister in laws as my own daughters and they call me dad and I'm fine with that. My wife's parents died when they were 3 & 5 yrs. They've been living with us for 6 yrs and they have called me dad all this time. My wife's happy about it and says I'm great.

I treat them like my own daughters from my heart and have done everything to them including all expenses. I've bought two houses for them, for their marriage. They say that I am like their own dad and even kiss me, when going out.When I married they were 9 & 11 and from then they have been kissing me. Is it okay for them to kiss me in a FATHER DAUGHTER way and calling me dad?

2006-10-24 14:06:00 · 2 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Singles & Dating

my friend of 2 years ,has never really been a good friend . She borrows money from me with no intention of paying me back, she borrows money from everyone and never pays them back they stopped trusting her, but she guilts me into giving her money. I can't trust her either .I told her about someone I hate and some guy I like and she went to them and told them. She talks about our other friends when they are not around ,and i think she does the same about me when I'm gone. I can't tell her anything,or trust her what kinda friend is that. I give and she takes its not only me who thinks that ,everyone thinks she takes advantage of me . a few days ago I heard her gossiping about me and I was right behind her! she has been apoligizing like crazy should i forgive her? Plus she blackmails me and gossips about me when i don't do things her way.

2006-10-24 14:05:02 · 14 answers · asked by babygirl 2 in Friends

like this girl in my youth group. we've known eachother for a few years now. some how a bunch of people in my youth group found out That i like her, which means she probably knows too. my youth grop got together last weekend and it seemed like she talked to me more than usual and she actualy got mad at a guy for interupting me when i was talking and told me to say the rest of what i was saying. does she like me? should i ask her out? !HELP PLEASE!!!

That is what i asked befor thjis gir goes to a different high school but we live farly close. the only connections we have regarding friends are the ones in our youth group. we're freshmen so we cant drive. we really don't see eachother exept for youth group.

2006-10-24 14:04:58 · 8 answers · asked by E man 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 14:04:41 · 1 answers · asked by Marquest 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-24 14:04:30 · 5 answers · asked by darkhastychocolate 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a very important exam next week,but I can't concentrate to study cuz I keep thinking about my ex boyfriend--we broke up yesterday. What should I do??I hate myself for can't concentrate!

2006-10-24 14:04:12 · 9 answers · asked by angela 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you do if you have a friend that will make plans but never show. And have email conversations, but leave you hanging and stop replying. When you call him out on it and say "What is up with you leaving me hanging?" and he yells at you saying that he has more important stuff going on besides you and he doesn't have to answer TO you anyway. And he also says that you are behaving like you are more than friends.

Obviously, he has anger issues. But why would I become his punching bag? And how do I deal with that? This is the second time this has happened.

2006-10-24 14:03:08 · 13 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Friends

his name is nestor he is 12 he flunked so is in 6 grade and i am in7 grade i miss him so much we dont talk as much though i love him to death and so does he

2006-10-24 14:02:49 · 6 answers · asked by Emily F 1 in Singles & Dating

What can i do to meet decent guys, i don't go clubbing and i don't drink. Where can i meet someone good w/out going to these places

2006-10-24 14:01:55 · 18 answers · asked by Lexi_Corp213 3 in Singles & Dating

No black people that I know / have known in the past want to befriend me. The majority of my friends have always been white, even now. We get labeled as trying to act like we're white, etc. My whole family is black and it's just the way this happened. I speak very properly, and I guess I don't act like other black people might, but should not be a good enough reason to not be able to have friends of all colors and races.

2006-10-24 14:01:19 · 4 answers · asked by ERICKA W 1 in Friends