well me and this guy have been hanging out a lot lately and i think i really do like him, and i even get butterflies when i see him, and i havent kissed him yet, my choice one because i dont want it to lead to other things too soon, and two i dont want to ruin anything and i really want him to respect me, should i wait to kiss him after we start dating or does it matter, does it make me look easy?
2006-10-24 14:10:40 · 14 answers · asked by flirtinbabe286 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To be on the safe side, I'd postpone kissing until the third date, that way you won't seem so easy.
Just remember not to do anything you may regret later on. And believe you me, even seemingly small things like that may hurt you.
2006-10-24 14:19:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right, don't kiss him. Otherwise, he'll think you're too easy and won't respect you. Instead, flirt to see if he really likes you and let him know that you're interested on him. Unless the guy doesn't have a clue about women, he will get it and act accordingly to his emotions.
2006-10-24 21:30:44 · answer #2 · answered by Magneto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a man, I would respect you more if you waited!!! You seem to have high moral standards, which is unheard of these days. Don't give in to your lustful desires! You will learn as you get older, men enjoy the chase....if he thinks he has you (and giving into your desires by "giving it up" lets him know that) you will have a hard time keeping him at bay!!!
2006-10-24 21:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by dean 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should wait to start dating him, he might think you are easy, He'll think if she kissed me and were not even dating who knows what other things she done with other guys.
2006-10-24 21:13:37 · answer #4 · answered by 90 civic 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sister, u need to wait!! dont give ur love away!
if u want respect or marriage wait and b patient
save it for mr right and focus on being an independant financially free woman
2006-10-24 21:20:01 · answer #5 · answered by globalveg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for whatever moment is irresistable. When he desires a kiss, give him a good one, don't make it a benchmark based on some grading or scoring criteria.
2006-10-24 21:14:03 · answer #6 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kiss him on the cheek. It says you think he's the bee's knees, but it also puts the ball in his court as to the next step.
It always works on me.
2006-10-24 21:17:44 · answer #7 · answered by abulafia24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you start dating. It could lead to things quicker than you want them to.
2006-10-24 21:13:35 · answer #8 · answered by j_son_06 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you gotta keep kissing and you know what on two different levels and let him know you want to wait and if he doesnt want to wait and things go wrong give me your number
2006-10-24 21:15:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are ways to show us you're interested, AND continue to peek our interest without kissing him....... it's called flirting! seriously though- don't rush it.... if he really likes you he'll wait a LITTLE while.
Good luck
2006-10-24 21:14:21 · answer #10 · answered by Damian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋