my friend of 2 years ,has never really been a good friend . She borrows money from me with no intention of paying me back, she borrows money from everyone and never pays them back they stopped trusting her, but she guilts me into giving her money. I can't trust her either .I told her about someone I hate and some guy I like and she went to them and told them. She talks about our other friends when they are not around ,and i think she does the same about me when I'm gone. I can't tell her anything,or trust her what kinda friend is that. I give and she takes its not only me who thinks that ,everyone thinks she takes advantage of me . a few days ago I heard her gossiping about me and I was right behind her! she has been apoligizing like crazy should i forgive her? Plus she blackmails me and gossips about me when i don't do things her way.
2006-10-24 14:05:02 · 14 answers · asked by babygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I lost some freinds that were mutual ,because of this too. I have other good freinds too ,but its kinda boring without her. I feel like I'm doing the right thing leaving this friendship i never benifit from it.
2006-10-24 14:07:29 · update #1
there is a reason to ask, she's pretty powerful and messing with her is one of the dumest thing you can do. I hate the way she is ,but we've had good times too, plus she calls me her best friend ,even though she does'nt treat me like one
2006-10-24 14:12:50 · update #2
Don't forgive her at all! Once a backstabber always a backstabber. You can't trust her, you can't be away becuz she talks bout you so so forget her. Even though she says sorry deep down she does not mean it. She is a twoface and you know it so if every1 is telling you she takes advantage of you and you really heard her talking trash, don't forgive her she is going to put you down all the time if you keep on forgiving her.
2006-10-24 14:15:55 · answer #1 · answered by sexyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not. You would be better off without a friend like that. Believe me on this but I found this out about my friend this weekend. We were not really that close but I thought we were good friends, until i heard the things she says to me behind my back. She knew how to work people into giving her money and seh talked soo low about everyone else because she thinks that she is the best. I chose to leave her alone. She understood why and she should already know why she has no friends. She is going to keep on doing it if you do not put an end to it. A real friend will never do that. To call someone a friend that takes what you have and talks bad about you is shameful on you. You are way better than that. In the end she will have nobody and all she has is herself to blame. Do not be the weak one and feel sorry for her. You know what is right and wrong. Friends come and go. Never let anyone take advantage of you
2006-10-24 14:14:23 · answer #2 · answered by spongebobswife68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let the friendship go because it seems as there is no friendship. Tell this girl exactly what you wrote on here...without trust you can get no where. Your friend is using you...don't forgive her. If she truly is sorry then she will make the neccessary changes she needs to....but based on what you wrote I'd tell her not to even bother..
2006-10-24 14:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by lovelylady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not your friend, you can forgive but don't forget and let her know it. Tell her no more money, none and don't ask you for any because you don't want to be put in a position to have to tell her no. Gossiping about you, that's just wrong....tell her. This is a bad relationship, end it/
2006-10-24 14:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by crkristy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk to her just ignore her cause if she doesn't pay you and your friends back she must be using you instead so tell her to go away and you move along.
2006-10-24 14:50:51 · answer #5 · answered by Momentai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know the answer, why are you even asking? you do not need permission to end a friendship. Just do it, but tell her why first, so that she fully understands why it happened and can not try to blame you (although she will)
2006-10-24 14:08:36 · answer #6 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i dont even know how you even landed being her friend she is totally using you ditch her there is like way more other friends out there that are way better i mean you deserve better
2006-10-24 14:07:41 · answer #7 · answered by ..::pimpin azn grl::.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her sorryass she dont deserve a good friend like you! Ok she deserves a sorriass dumbass! Find a way better friend than her you deserve better!!!......Really
2006-10-24 14:35:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO!!!she is not a friend, if she was she would not be talking bad about u behind your back.
She is using u and she will continue as long as u allow it.
2006-10-24 14:10:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl leave her alone move on she is no friend she is holding you back
2006-10-24 14:08:00 · answer #10 · answered by BabyPrincess REAL JAMAICAN QUEEN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋