my bf only wants one thing, sex.i know its important but i dunt wanna do it before marriage, i love him so much and cant live without him. so please give me advice on what shud i do! and its been 9 months together n i dunt wanna loose him, he just doesnt understand my feelings!!
2006-10-24 14:12:31 · 17 answers · asked by meee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a parent myself I know there is going to be alot of pains and sorrows that you will "have" to go through in your life. I just wished that as a parent and already been through most of these things (no-one has went through them all) I could take the pains and sorrows for you. But like school, every day is going to be a learning experence. Please don't live in a box, think outside the box. Keep an open mind, your going to meet alot of good people in your life.
2006-10-28 06:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by gkinn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend, the red flag is waving as big as the Statue of Liberty. Move on!
Now, ask yourself…Do I deserve this or more? Am I willing to stay with someone because of my expectation and fantasy of a what – if relationship? What if I gave in, sexually? What if I wear this, then maybe he would love me more and wouldn’t cheat?
Hmmm! Think about…
Girl, love your self and get to stepping. You deserve a person who will value all of you, not only parts of you.
And, It’s okay to let go. It will be his great loss. You are an original, not a carbon copy of his notches on his belt.
Be blessed.
2006-10-24 14:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by Decent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, are you that niave to let some man walk all over you????once they disrespect you they will always do it....and then you personaly don't have any self respect for your self and not standing up to him and what you believe.....if he can't wait for you then you need to put him behind you and move on because he must still have feelings for his ex if he is sleeping with her....please use your brain if you were to get married he would probably cheat on you andsay well when we were dateing you went for it and didn't say any thing so why now????do not put up with that do you know how many people have std's and most of them are not cureable........and not only that aids and hiv are very common in people that are young for not using protection and protecting their self.....and i am not that old my self and i wouldn't put up with that type of things from any man they are not worth it or my life for that reason....i hope you choose the right choice and get away from him and please don't be so nieve......
2006-10-24 15:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by wendy p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey you know what he should understand your feelings and respect you and you need to have a talk with him and let him know how you feel. I was in the same hing you are in last month. my bf ceated on me with is other girl because he said i wouldn't have sex with him. and i told him i didn't want to ruse into things so fast even though we have been going out 4 2 months, but anyway let him know how you feel and if you already did do it again untel he understands you.hope it works. good luck.....
2006-10-24 14:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by hotchick14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cant respect you and wait until your ready...then he obviously doesnt care.
It may be one month, or 3 yrs....he still cheated and wont wait.
You can give him a 2nd chance or dump him....but they say "Once a cheater, always a cheater" and 90% of the time its true.
2006-10-24 14:16:06 · answer #5 · answered by I Love My Kitties 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is looking for sex all the time then 9 times out of 10 he is going to dump you anyway even if you sleep with him from experince if he loves you he will respect you my advice is to find someone willing to wait and stay with your belief dont give up on your true path
2006-10-24 14:32:13 · answer #6 · answered by shalechia h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honor you for sticking to your principles and not letting your boyfriend talk you into things.
If your boyfriend is (a) cheating on you and (b) does not understand your feelings... is he really someone you want to be with? Giving in to him on the subject of sex is not going to improve your relationship.
It sounds like you will have to choose between your boyfriend and your principles. I hope you choose your principles: frankly, the boyfriend sounds like the worse of the two.
2006-10-24 14:19:04 · answer #7 · answered by Elliot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM! If he's cheating now he will continue probably even after you give it up, or break up with you soon after. Life goes on after a relationship and young people don't seem to understand that.
2006-10-24 14:16:33 · answer #8 · answered by Abs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already have your answer, when he can't have what he wants from you he goes else where for it. this show what his character is really like, are you sure that this is the man you want to marry? He is a user, and you are the one being used
2006-10-24 14:17:23 · answer #9 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself.. do you see yourself being with this guy and actually being happy in the future, and i do mean the long run.......it's not worth knowing that you get hurt from being with this guy...and if the guy can do it once believe me he would do it again....
2006-10-24 14:23:39 · answer #10 · answered by kenneth x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋