I'm in highschool, and their is a girl I go to school with that I really like. I'm positive she likes me, but the only problem is that she is really nervous around me. I really dont know why, she's very pretty and I know she has dated a few guys before me. I always talk to her friends to see whats up, and they are always like "she is so scared to talk to you, she's intimidated by your looks" Its awful, any tips would be much appreciated.
2006-10-24 14:10:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just go slow with her. Dont make her feel pressured or anything. Some girls just get really nervous around guys to let her take her time but le her know that you like her. good luck
2006-10-24 14:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u know she likes u but is scared to talk to u, then why don't u talk to her? let her know that she doesn't have to be afraid of anything, she's a very pretty girl and any guy that would reject her is crazy. maybe ask her out to get her warmed up to u. if she's nervous about going out w/ u, ask her friends to go(it always helps to have someone w/ u). after a few dates she should be able to talk to u w/o people around.
2006-10-24 14:29:24 · answer #2 · answered by rieshafreeman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try talking to her more, get her to feel more comfortable around you because the more you guys try to avoid each other then the more shyer u guys would be if you guys go out, i mean come on u guys know u always want to see each other, but whats the point of wanting to if you guys would be too shy to talk or anything?? just step your game up and be the bigger person, it is a guys thing to make the first move anyways, so stop waiting and go after her if u really care about her, regardless
2006-10-24 14:17:07 · answer #3 · answered by teekapeek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She maybe nervous,has said..Have to do something to break her out of her shell.Maybe ask her to one of the dances at school? Maybe ask her to meet you,say at a fast food resturant for a meal,so maybe you would have a time to talk with her? Good Luck
2006-10-24 14:16:50 · answer #4 · answered by Small Town Gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im pretty sure what ever starts up will have to start with you. Try talking to her as much as u can about anything to let her know its cool and all. Good luck
2006-10-24 14:15:22 · answer #5 · answered by bitbaygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm kidda like that so i know what she is goin threw. Anyways...just talk to her, show her you won't hurt her, and that u are into her, tell her how you feel bcs some girls want u to make the first move.
2006-10-24 14:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep talking to her like you normally do. Smile, be nice, whatever. Eventually she'll overcome her nervousness and she'll become more comfortable with you. Good luck!
2006-10-24 14:13:54 · answer #7 · answered by Lexy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u strike up a conversation with her first. maybe ask her out to get pizza or something. just chill with her alone and maybe she'll become more comfortable. also talk to her ex's to see if she was like that with them at first. good luck.
2006-10-24 14:14:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eih make her feel conforatable..i think she needs a little confidence so tell her that you think she's beautiful..maybe she just need a little assurance that she deserves to date someone who's good-looking..then crack a good joke when you're together so that the ice will break...
2006-10-24 14:15:32 · answer #9 · answered by queen_maan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try dressing casually and acting humble, and ask her out then. Just a suggestion.
2006-10-24 14:27:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋