well here is the thing...about 3 people have told me that they think he likes me, but i dont know, BECAUSE he has a tendancy to not think very much about girls and he sometimes leads girls on...we used to be really good friends and then he went to high school and got an ego... so i dont know if he likes me or not because he ditched his date to come with me, he had his arm around me 3 times, and he gave me like the biggest hug when he left, he came to find me before he left too...soooooooooooooo i am confused because i dont know if he is leading me on or not or if he even likes me
2006-10-24 14:12:48 · 14 answers · asked by ~Pitbull 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask nim and watch his body language, listen intentively, and stre him in the eyes. Sometimes the lie tells more than the truth.
2006-10-24 14:15:53 · answer #1 · answered by Cathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard one. I was in an almost identical situation about a year ago. My advice to u, find out if he's typically a player. My guy was. All he wanted was a little somethin, somethin (if u know what i mean).
Once he got what he wanted he moved on, and left me brokenhearted. If it's possible find out all u can about him from people u can rely on and trust. Then if u still think he likes u try going out with a group of friends. See how he treats u with others around. Does he treat u differently when ur not with all ur friends? He should treat u the same in both situations. Either he likes u or he's wantin somethin else. Keep in mind I don't know u so i'm not tryn to bash anyone's character, but u should know that every girl is worth much more than a lot of guys realize! :)
2006-10-24 21:27:08 · answer #2 · answered by identity dreamer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself what constitutes you knowing when a guy likes you.....does he have to come right out & tell you or can you tell by his actions? If you are not sure by his actions, then just watch him with other girls....if he does the same thing, then it is just part of his personality. If not, then you would have to think why all of the attention if someone doesn't like you. BUT you also need to know if he is a player...my biggest problem would be that he ditched a date to be with you (was that date a girl or just something he had planned with friends?) If it was a girl, do you want to be the next girl that he does that to? We all know that isn't a cool thing to do to someone even though it might boost your ego for the moment. Time will tell.....or the most simple......come right out & tell him you are interested& see what his reply is.
2006-10-24 21:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and take it easy there is nothing you can do worrying about it. Let him make the first move or you may bruise his ego and then nothing will happen.
You stated you were friends so let it all work naturally never try to force this type of issue.
2006-10-24 21:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's into you! But be careful, this is a sticky situation because he ditched his date! There could be other things deeper than what's on the surface! Talk to him-- ask him to answer truthfully to if he really likes you or it's just a fling.
2006-10-24 21:15:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like you are very young. so at this age, i think that instead of trying so hard to figure out if hes the one, find out who you are. because at this age if you start thinking about , why dont he like me, is it my this or that. just go through life as it comes. make friends with a guy first before you decide to date him.
when your a teen alot of it is about the new feeling and new experiences and we get caught up and such. we start to lose our identitys because we are trying to conform to what we think the other person wants and then in turn we lose ourselves.alot of people get together because for the moment it feels good. but then when someday comes when reality starts and then darker times come and you get confused and fight. you have to be friends and know the person at a deeper personal level, who they are, and if you can realize that when you are so young, its better to know who the people you want to get involved with instead of worrying weather or not if he likes you or not. go with it and see where it goes. dont just limit yourself to the first pretty face comes along and slow down so you can find out that theres alot more out there than just sex. deeper emotional bonding. stop trying to grow up so fast. learn from you mistakes and grow proud.
2006-10-24 21:28:51 · answer #6 · answered by solas lethe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he "likes" you. Don't worry about it, don't push it, don't crowd him, don't aggravate him and don't beg him.
Be nice to him and if it is to be, it WILL be. AND when that time comes, you will KNOW it without worrying and being confused.
Good luck. Pops
2006-10-24 21:16:11 · answer #7 · answered by Pops 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget this guy. Any boy that will dump his date to hang with you, (even if you were friends) is a jerk.
2006-10-24 21:21:25 · answer #8 · answered by Chance20_m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straight forward and ask him, you're making this much more complicated than it needs to be ...no big deal !!
2006-10-24 21:15:26 · answer #9 · answered by heather d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just sees you as a friend.
2006-10-24 21:15:15 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋