Is it okay for them to kiss me on the cheek?

Question

Avator's my wife. Love her. she is Hafsa. Lot of people ask.

I'm 31 years old and my wife is 24. We have 4 children with twins. Have been married for 6 yrs.

My wife has 3 sisters and a brother. One of the sisters and brother are married. My other two sister in laws are 17 & 15 yrs and they have been living with us for the past six years.
I treat my two sister in laws as my own daughters and they call me dad and I'm fine with that. My wife's parents died when they were 3 & 5 yrs. They've been living with us for 6 yrs and they have called me dad all this time. My wife's happy about it and says I'm great.

I treat them like my own daughters from my heart and have done everything to them including all expenses. I've bought two houses for them, for their marriage. They say that I am like their own dad and even kiss me, when going out.When I married they were 9 & 11 and from then they have been kissing me. Is it okay for them to kiss me in a FATHER DAUGHTER way and calling me dad?

Answer 1

Yes, I think it is great that these girls feel this way about you. They have been to hell and back losing their parents at such a young age. It would make me feel special for them to call me Dad and to kiss me on the cheek. They do consider you to be their Dad or they wouldn't call you Dad and kiss you on the cheek. I totally agree with your wife. You are truly a wonderful man for doing all of this for your 2 sister-in-laws and for the rest of her family. Take every special moment you have with these 2 girls and keep it close inside your heart. They will someday grow up and also get married and will be gone. Not many young kids now days appreciate anything at all no matter what you do for them. Treasure the closeness you have with them and the closeness they feel with you. It is truly a gift from God. And in my opinion, you are a gift from God as well.

Answer 2

yes it is perfectly fine!! (i think ur pretending to be the dad)