I have a very important exam next week,but I can't concentrate to study cuz I keep thinking about my ex boyfriend--we broke up yesterday. What should I do??I hate myself for can't concentrate!
2006-10-24 14:04:12 · 9 answers · asked by angela 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sleep today, and tomorrow go to the school`s phych and declare deep emotional stress. Cry and explain everything, including the exam. If you are trully stressed it will be seen tomorrow and she might write you a not.
2006-10-24 14:10:11 · answer #1 · answered by TC B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think of a breakup this way: you're one step closer to the one you're meant to be with." There are few things in life that are harder on a person than the time when they realize that the love they have worked so hard at, and spent so much time on, is finally over. For some, this realization is a complete shock and for others, they have seen the writing on the wall for some time now.There isn't a sure-fire way to mend a broken heart but there are definitely things you can to do to make it feel a bit lighter and ready for new love. First, allow yourself to feel what you need to and take all the time in the world to get over the person. For some people it may only take a few weeks to move on and others years. However long it takes, be okay with that. You can't live your life in the past, waiting for a second chance to do things differently. Doing so is only taking you away from experiencing things that could be better. Don't be scared to give love another try.So, you've found out that Mr. or Miss Right isn't the soul mate you've always dreamed about. Now what? The period of loss and pain doesn't have to extend on to an eternity of what ifs. After spending a few days wallowing in self-pity, you'll probably want to start making a few steps towards life after love. To help ease this transition, try a few of the following ideas.Letting loose on your emotions is a quick and self-healing way to recover from incidents of loss and pain. This is especially true of keeping a journal. Make a commitment to write for at least a few minutes every day.Keep your mind busy with new information. Whether you decide to learn a new word or how to do something new on your computer, it will help you keep moving forward instead of looking back.Get yourself out and about with a 20 to 30 minute walk. Just the constant, repetitive motion of moving your legs one after another is enough to help you put things in perspective.Just because you are not attached to someone doesn't mean you can't enjoy going out. Think of it as a chance to go to all the places you've always wanted to go.Maybe there is something you've always wanted to learn how to do. Now is the perfect opportunity to develop it! Try anything from bicycling, joining a walking club, sewing, bodyboarding or surfing, learning how to watercolor, or cooking.Best Wishes
2006-10-25 04:16:00 · answer #2 · answered by rebelicious_angel228 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get back together with him for this one week. Your mind will be at ease and you can always break up with him again later. You will kill two birds with one stone this way. You will ace the test and you can get out of the relationship again if you so desire.
If this is not possible, then everytime you think of your ex-boyfriend, replace the image of him with something you really can't stand. If you hate him then this should be relatively easy. If you still love him, then you should try to replace thinking of him with something else that you love, perhaps even more --- such as a mother or father or someone else that you admire.
2006-10-24 21:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by GentleheartedOne 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure if this'll work, but you could try filling your head with something else, like classical music. Wagner, for example. Or something alternative, like Enya. Hope that works.
2006-10-24 21:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen 2 some calm music when u study and know that ur bf cant take over ur life,hope that helps!
2006-10-24 21:07:56 · answer #5 · answered by gcoco 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
realize you can think about him anytime, and this exam can't wait. Then just shove your face into your work and don't look back. works for me! LOL
2006-10-24 21:08:58 · answer #6 · answered by High On Life 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cry,eat some ice cream,whatever you have to do,but get over it and move on.
2006-10-24 21:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats really horrible. i feel for you i really do, similar thing happened to me and i didnt do so well on the exam!
2006-10-24 21:08:16 · answer #8 · answered by ajflkajfsalkfsalkfna 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel,you sound just like me.I don't know what to tell you,sorry.
2006-10-24 22:05:05 · answer #9 · answered by serenity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋