I think my husband has certian expectations and when they are not met he will yell at me, curse, throw things, and has even told me to shut up. If he is working on the computer his family would not ask him what he is doing, but I ask what are you doing,and this makes him angry because he feels I am not respecting him. He even expects our cat to meow if she gets stuck in a room and has to use the litter box, just beacuse his cats do that at home. (But they are outside cats,mine is indoors.) I asked my husband if he respects me and he said about as much as i respect him. But I don't yell, or do any of the stuff he does to me. I feel that he has expectations based on how his family treated him at home and when I don't do same as them i get disrespected.I tell him that telling me to shut up huts me he doesn't care and says well you did not respect me.This cycle hurts and everything seems to be about him first. And he says he loves me.He is also a marine as well, what is going on here?
2006-10-22
07:22:00
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