yesterday i chose to be the designated driver for my bf and my friends. well my bf kinda made me. wellll he was out and he called on his way back and said "were on our way back go ahead and leave and meet us there and if you get there before us just go inside" well a half n hour later he called me and said "we just got back, where are you?" i told him i was about to leave and he got mad because i wasnt there. well when i got there they werent even ready. he yelled at me over the phone before i got there and wouldn't say i love you.
later that night when i took him home we started arguing about it and he said "i always have to wait for you..i've been waiting forever, befor i met you i was on time to every single place" there was no specific time to be at the party and i figured im doing them a favor ill get there when i can. it was only 10 min after they got back that i got there.
2006-10-22 07:12:19 · 13 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
***we have been dating for almost three years and he yelled at me and i dont know if he broke up with me last night or not because i was too upset to pay attention...what can i do!? i'm so confused!!! I love my bf and i've never been in a more serious relationship...i can't lose him!***
2006-10-22 07:12:47 · update #1
talk to him about it and tell him ur his gf not a cheaffur. if u dontwant to lose him make sure u both put equal effort in the realashonship not just u. But if all else fails dimp him the grass is always greenner. GOOD LUCK !!!
2006-10-22 07:16:28 · answer #1 · answered by practicully_famouse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you were doing them a favour for being a taxi and that he had no right to shout at you like that. if he wants to get places on time he should drive himself. the only thing you can do is ask him what is happening, if it is over then it will hurt but at least you can find someone willing to be grown up enough to make their own arrangements and not screw at you when they are not specific. if he wants to carry on then you have the choice of whether this was a one of thing you can put behind you and carry on as you were or whether you have just seen a side of him that might rear its ugly head again and you dont wanna go there. i hope things work out for you but dont take any c*ap, be strong, you did nothing wrong-at the end of the day he could have got a taxi or driven himself if he was that bothered. you dont have to put up with it. big hugs xx
2006-10-22 07:17:51 · answer #2 · answered by bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a good chance he doesn't even remember what he said last night. Remember that he had been drinking.
I would play it very cool with him. I would not call him. I would not go over to his house. I would not answer his calls for a few days. Let him think that you are too busy to deal with him. Make him work to get you back.
2006-10-22 07:15:48 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, in my opion, even though OU are doing the person(anyone not just ur boyfriend) aq favor then you should still be on time... you said you willg et there when you can, but when you told your boyfriend you would be there when he asked you too... you should have been....if you do not know if he broke up wit you (which i thinkwould be a stupid reason to brake up) call him and try to talk things out. if you dont want to loose him you will do anything to keep him... i dont mean make your self un happy but just try talking to him today and see if he calms down any....
2006-10-22 07:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple here . just tell him alone and aside from this disagreement how your feeling and about your worrys and dont leave anything out and he will either tell you your worried about nothing or he will say your finished either way the striaght line is fastest way to get your answer here . go now and pull him aside and tell him you love him and ask are we over because this isnt what i want and let your heart just flow then be ready to move in what ever direction this leads . good luck
2006-10-22 07:21:03 · answer #5 · answered by sigmond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of you shoulded let him scream at you!!!!!he aint no1 to scream at you.you should tell him that.next i were you all let him tell you sorry.he's the 1 making a big deal over nothing.and call him up if you aint sure if he did break up with you.but dont ask him that.tell him that it isnt worth fighting and you love him.and wait if he says he loves you back.good luck
2006-10-22 07:22:21 · answer #6 · answered by turtle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont stress yourself up...maybe he really hasnt broken up with you at all.. Just say your sorry for being late and let him ***** a little..after that, he'll be alright.
2006-10-22 07:16:05 · answer #7 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need 2 apologize 2 him. even if u think it's not ur fault, i don't think he'll apologize, so u have 2 apologize 2 him if u want 2 keep ur realationship.
2006-10-22 07:17:04 · answer #8 · answered by kellycfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him, listen to him - carefully!, see if you fell sorry... if you do - say you are, and hope for the best :)
Good luck!
2006-10-22 07:17:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not worth it
2006-10-22 07:14:48 · answer #10 · answered by ladylike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋