Family & Relationships - 22 October 2006

hes my naighbor ithink im in love with him but im not sure he is i think so but his sisters says that hes shy what do i do they all so say that he likes me but i want him to tell me

2006-10-22 06:44:30 · 11 answers · asked by jessica m 2 in Singles & Dating

I spend a lot of time away from home due to my job.This has been for the14 yrs together 8 c/l and 6 married. Since Feb she has been distant and will not go out with me.When asked what is wrong She brings up things that were said a few years ago.There has never been any abuse. However she seems to go out with her friends when I'm out of town working.I have told her I have no problem with this except that I will call home and get no answer and start to worry. All I asked is she let me know so I don't get concerned. One night she did meet me at a bar to meet some out of country friends that were there. She was pleasant but would not let me touch her and followed every move the male(26YO)bartender made.she is 41 and a stay at home mom. I am 42 we have a 3&5 yr old. this is her second marriage. her first ended when her kids (who I have raised like my own) were 3&5.They are now 17and19. I love her very much, but she will not communicate. She wants a trial sep. but finan. it is not possibl

2006-10-22 06:43:15 · 40 answers · asked by hopingtostaymarried 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i just took a dump

2006-10-22 06:42:43 · 10 answers · asked by PETE 3 in Singles & Dating

Today's the day my life will change...
My love, my world, my everything....
I have to leave him...
I have to...
This ache is killing me...
I don't know what to do..
Smoke a J..
Get wasted..
Smoke a cig....
All of the above!
Just get away from reality for a day...
Not having to deal with it...
The easy way out..
No..I don't need therapy so don't say I'm mental..
I'm crazy in love....
I'm just human..
I'm going threw a ****** up time right now..
& I need...
Anything..
to keep me from being a fool....
Otherwise..
I'm going to loose it.....

2006-10-22 06:41:48 · 13 answers · asked by Savanna 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

1.Money
2.Passionate
3.Getting Bore living with the same person
4.Misunderstanding
5.Friends
6.Bad Habites

2006-10-22 06:41:24 · 18 answers · asked by ||| Romeo Boy ||| 4 in Singles & Dating

Could someone please tell me how arranged marriages work and how parents choose wives for their sons

2006-10-22 06:41:17 · 24 answers · asked by YOLA 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If a person pays child support via money order and actually puts "child support payments" on the money order but isn't through the court system, is it still considered a gift by law and if not will they have the same rights for visitation of the child by law. The payee currently lives in Virginia and the custodial parent lives in Georgia

2006-10-22 06:40:32 · 5 answers · asked by guestuser 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Last night, 2 friends and I talked a girl on myspace into coming over and having a gang bang with us. She wasn't that good looking or anything but it played out well and the memories we have will last a lifetime. From 2am till 10am this morning we took turns and did it at the same time. After we got done we made breakfast and continued a 3rd round until it was just my friend left who hadn't got off yet. so we let him have it for a while. I had rode with my friend so I had to wait until he was done. When he was she needed to go home. I shouted down hall 'hey, you need to leave!'. I didn't know how else to do it and she seemed offended. I am worried that she won't come back after she heard that and all the stuff we said about her being fat in the kitchen. What are some ways?

2006-10-22 06:40:09 · 21 answers · asked by alf 1 in Singles & Dating

should you ask him out first or should you wait till he askes you out

2006-10-22 06:39:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean, I could also say it's "Cain and Abel," not "Cain and Mabel"

2006-10-22 06:39:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-22 06:39:07 · 31 answers · asked by Einstein 7 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-22 06:39:03 · 7 answers · asked by cool 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I HAVE A BF AND I LOVE HIM DEARLY BUT I WOULD LIKE THE CHANCE TO EXPERIENCE WITH ANOTHER FEMALE.... HOW DO U THINK HE WILL REACT IF I TELL HIM.... ANY FEMALES THAT HAVE EXPERIENCED BEING WITH ANOTHER FEMALE HOW IS IT?? IS IT WORTH IT?? PLEASE HELP ME.....

2006-10-22 06:38:54 · 3 answers · asked by SHORTY 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-22 06:38:07 · 13 answers · asked by Einstein 7 in Friends

does anyone know how to say:
"i hate to love you" in italian?

2006-10-22 06:38:05 · 2 answers · asked by mimorcy 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband left for to indulge in a life-style that I would not tolerate. He is addicted to porn and has gay relationships. He moved out. We have not gotten a divorce, nor are we legally separated. Would I be guilty of being unfaithful or of committing adultry at this point if I met someone?

2006-10-22 06:37:51 · 26 answers · asked by piano nerd 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating this guy, we work together and he has 4 kids with as many women. We kinda fell for each other really hard but now I feel like Im being pushed aside for his exes. I have no problem with him being a father to his kids. I fully respect that of him. Recently I met a guy who has captured my heart and I want to be with him but I dont want to made my work environment difficult with the other guy. What do I do?

2006-10-22 06:36:48 · 13 answers · asked by williesgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

Because if you ask me, divorce trivializes marriage more than two men saying "I do"

I'm not taking a position on gay marriage one way or another; I'm just pointing out the flaw in the anti-gay position.

2006-10-22 06:35:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-22 06:35:44 · 7 answers · asked by Victoria R 1 in Friends

My girlfriend's parents don't like me because I'm Muslim and my parents don't like her because she's christian.She decide to stay in America for good. And I have to leave America because I'm international student and come to America for study & get degree.
Do you think I should do my relationship what I have right now? she ask me to be to change to Christian but I don't want to because my family is strong Islamic. Both our parents aren't in America, but we did sleep together. Should i tell her to break up with her when I move back to my country (Malaysia?

2006-10-22 06:35:33 · 5 answers · asked by herry 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-22 06:35:24 · 1 answers · asked by Ruben Z 1 in Family

2006-10-22 06:35:16 · 11 answers · asked by candydogsboys 2 in Singles & Dating

trying to find out if someone has died and dont know how to go about it

2006-10-22 06:34:50 · 2 answers · asked by jessica_ryan93 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Would she?

2006-10-22 06:34:34 · 15 answers · asked by Einstein 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Well the story is that I've known him for years, he has always been such a fair boss of others, truthful, smart, confident and responsible. He's 12 years older than me, has got a beautiful little daughter with his wife.
Just about a year ago he noticed me when he got a job at the same company, started smiling at me all the time, tried to approach me but I remained distant, thinking - "A married guy? No way!" In last few months we had to communicate a lot at work and his behaviour has changed so dramatically that he almost frightens me - he's so quiet when I come around, he talks to me in such a soft way one day with all his face red, and another he pretends he doesn't notice me, while being so anxious, all his confidence has disappeared somewhere, etc. It seems he's drooling over me and now I can't get him out of my head too. I don't want anyone to be hurt, especially that little girl.
I'd like to know if you girls would make any moves toward him in my place? Thank you in advance.

2006-10-22 06:33:35 · 21 answers · asked by Aiming High 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-22 06:33:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this one girl ims me ( i know her from school ) and its cool. but then she goes NUTS! she ims at like midnight when my dad is working and then accuses him of being me and making up ecuses. then she starts calling every 5 min. and hanging up. then if i prove her wrong, she starts like crying and apologizing. ive told her to bug off and leave me alone, but even when i block her she gets a new screen name and ims like nothing ever happened. one person got the password for my other screen-name and started sending her threats and stuff. she asked me if i knew who it was and i apologized and explained. i told her i'd fix it, so i logged of and logged on to the other one. then when i logged back on as this, she said i was sending her that stuff because we were never on at the same time. i tried explaining, but she just logged off. now shes starting to send me ims again... what do i do!?

2006-10-22 06:33:18 · 9 answers · asked by nightmare_reality95 1 in Friends

2006-10-22 06:32:24 · 3 answers · asked by nandita s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, there is this girl, she is in the same class as me for the past two years and we play in he same band ,the same instrument. Its a little awkward because dhe is like super smart and stuff and it would feel pretty awkward in class if i ask her out and become a couple, if she accepts.

so i don't know if its a good idea to ask her now or even how to do it

2006-10-22 06:32:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in love with my best friend. He's in love with a girl who's in a long term relationship. She doesn't requite his love for her and he would never make a move because he respects the fact that she'd in a relationship. This doesn't stop her taking advantage of my best friend's affections and treating him terribly. He's desperately unhappy and confides in me. He's recently become wise to this and has told me he is trying to get over her. He knows I'm in love with him. I told him three months ago. He doesn't return my feeling but he wants to remain best friends with me and we continue to spend loads of time together- going to the theatre, to the park, to museums... I dote on him. So what I want to know is; should I wait for him? Is it worth it? Do people change their feelings? Do you think he'll ever notice me? We're so similar. We're both in love for the first time.(We're neither of us teenagers btw, far from it.) I love him and would do anything for him. I'd wait years if I had to

2006-10-22 06:31:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating