Ok, there is this girl, she is in the same class as me for the past two years and we play in he same band ,the same instrument. Its a little awkward because dhe is like super smart and stuff and it would feel pretty awkward in class if i ask her out and become a couple, if she accepts.
so i don't know if its a good idea to ask her now or even how to do it
2006-10-22 06:32:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well hang out some day like at a football game or something, then ask her out... thats where i got asked out. hope it helps :)
2006-10-22 06:39:11 · answer #1 · answered by snickelfritz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didier (what is that?) you will one day wish you and life was this sweet and uncomplicated. If you are as nice a guy as you sound like then this "super smart" girl is probably thinking the same about you. Look at all you have in common. This is what you do: Wait until an event, a concert, a film, anything that has a connection to the two of you - music is a natural - and get two tickets and in class tell her that you have the tickets and you thought about taking her because you admire her ability and the way she carries herself (or words to that effect) Ask her if she is free on (whatever date) and would she care to go with you. She will say "yes." and you say, "Cool" and tell her that she can talk with her parents and you and she will work out transportation, etc. Also, remind her that a stop at fast food prior to the concert, is "mandatory" for teens. If she seems to want to hug you, give her a brief, friendly hug. That is all.
Then one day let me and all of us here know how it went.
2006-10-22 06:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your going to ask her out DONT do it over the phone and defenetly not the internet ( IM ). Tell her face to face about your feeling but dont mention the whole "going out" concept. If she says that she likes you too then ask her but if she says she'd rather be friends just be a friend and say yeah thats great, and give her a nice big hug!
2006-10-22 06:36:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask her to talk after class. Tell her that you really like her, and ask her if she feels anything toward you. If she likes you, then she would tell you. If not, she would probably reject you. But have no fear--rejection is not so bad. You'll laugh about it later on, you know? Just be happy knowing that at least you tried! =) Good luck!
2006-10-22 06:34:25 · answer #4 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You like her? You see you 2 as a couple? Then ask her out.
2006-10-22 06:34:18 · answer #5 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehe, well, its up to the big man himself to do it. Well, I've guess you'd already answered the question yourself, you see, when you want to ask someone out and you want to, well, that mean yes. If you want to ask someone out but you not sure enough, well, that means you're not ready yet. But, the thing is, though she may all of that and you look down on yourself, just go for it. As one says, level of standards doesn't matter if you ask thoroughly from your heart..
2006-10-22 06:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by piring 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at last, she is a human anyway, not a saint. so i think you just come to her and ask her confidentialy and politely.
Just ask her out as friend at first, don't need to say something speacial, be natural so both of you can feel comfortable. Once you are close friends, everything will be easier.
2006-10-22 06:40:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ask her now, but seeing that you can't spell (aks her out)
i would do it verbally. try to incorporate some humor in the whole deal. i think making a girl laugh is one of the most important steps to beginning a romantic relationship.
2006-10-22 06:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by turtle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be with her, just ask her out. Be casual, it's stupid if guys get to romantic if you're only askin her out.... Just ask if she wants to go see a movie sometime...
2006-10-22 06:36:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wrrite her a note to meet you somewhere where it will be the two of you alone then you will have more confidence then infront of othere people adn she'll apreaciate that
2006-10-22 06:34:45 · answer #10 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋