hes my naighbor ithink im in love with him but im not sure he is i think so but his sisters says that hes shy what do i do they all so say that he likes me but i want him to tell me
2006-10-22 06:44:30 · 11 answers · asked by jessica m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If a guy is shy, then chances are he's gonna wait for you to make the first move. You need to make sure he knows how you feel, then he might have the confidence to ask you. But if he's the type who's scared of being shot down, then your gonna have to tell him.
2006-10-22 06:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's shy, he's not going to approach you. Therefore the only way to get around this, is for you to approach him. Start with small talk. Speak to him and ask him what's up? If he has plans for the day/weekend? Try compliment him on something he's wearing or compliment his eyes or hair. Don't forget to smile at him and be as friendly as you can. Continue to do these things as often as you can. He'll start warming up to you. And when he does, go in for the kill.....ask him if he'd like to join you to go see a movie. If you want anything done, you have to do it yourself. It's very less likely a shy person will make a first move. So show some initiative and step up to the plate. You like him, he likes you so what can possibly go wrong?
2006-10-22 13:50:50 · answer #2 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first i think u need to figure ur own feelings out bout him. second i think dat maybe u should first jus try to be friends wit dis guy and see how it goes, friendships can turn into good things!!! friendships bring u closer, if dis guy likes u he will want to be friends, after a while u should get his sis to tell him if he really likes u he'll have to tell u in order to be wit u and i think if he really wants to be wit u then he'll tell u if he don't den well he might feel da other way, but be patient and don't get ahead or urself or it might just blow up in ur face!!! well good luck i hope he tells u rather u use my advice or not
2006-10-22 13:49:36 · answer #3 · answered by insko2713 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear friend i dont wana let u down baby but i think love is made when u get to knmow someone more inside and u have some relationship e.g. going out love at the first sight is often the hollusination not love but any way if u wanna get him take my advice dont get very near i mean dont beg dont stand in his way (BY CHANCE!!!) to often let it be more natural im sure he is not sure (as men are not) so let it flow naturallly
2006-10-22 14:04:54 · answer #4 · answered by ...... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you're not infatuated with him? Go strike up a conversation with him. Ask if he'd like to go out for coffee.
2006-10-22 13:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up to him and ask him out i am a shy person and that's what i do or ask a friend 2 ask him lol
2006-10-22 13:47:25 · answer #6 · answered by max 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is shy, make the first move. he is no going to open up to his sister.. flirt with him and trough some food for though his way..
2006-10-22 13:47:00 · answer #7 · answered by lolo123392000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you acquire maturity, you will understand and know the secret. Until then, dont worry about it. You are not in love with him.
2006-10-22 13:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him allready. Look at it this way you tell him , then the ball is in his court. If he likes you then you cand spend your time together, if not then you can look for someone else and stop wasting your time
2006-10-22 13:47:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him over then ask him if he wants to play truth or dare. You ask first since its your house.
2006-10-22 13:54:00 · answer #10 · answered by Doc M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋