I'm in love with my best friend. He's in love with a girl who's in a long term relationship. She doesn't requite his love for her and he would never make a move because he respects the fact that she'd in a relationship. This doesn't stop her taking advantage of my best friend's affections and treating him terribly. He's desperately unhappy and confides in me. He's recently become wise to this and has told me he is trying to get over her. He knows I'm in love with him. I told him three months ago. He doesn't return my feeling but he wants to remain best friends with me and we continue to spend loads of time together- going to the theatre, to the park, to museums... I dote on him. So what I want to know is; should I wait for him? Is it worth it? Do people change their feelings? Do you think he'll ever notice me? We're so similar. We're both in love for the first time.(We're neither of us teenagers btw, far from it.) I love him and would do anything for him. I'd wait years if I had to
2006-10-22 06:31:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since he is trying to let go of his feelings for this other girl, I'd give it a while longer.
2006-10-22 06:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What if he never has romantic feeling for you? Are you willing to be alone forever waiting for him. I say go on normally with your life. If it is meant to be then you will find a way to be together. I don't think he will like the idea of you pining away for him for years when he is not interested...it might even be annoying.
2006-10-22 13:39:11 · answer #2 · answered by silentstorm025 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
continue to be his friend and hang out with him but in the meantime, just date other men, while he continues to date other women. If it is meant to be, it will happen. But don't let your feelings for him ruin a good friendship. He will come to you.
2006-10-22 13:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest you move on. Since, he already told you that he wants you as a best friend.
2006-10-22 13:35:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you really prepared to wait years? if so keep on being his best friend, he may some day wake up and see you, but this is not something you can make happen with special tricks
2006-10-22 13:35:37 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it hard to tell, i WAS friends with this guy that i really liked and i told him and it sorta ruind our friendship we still talk but we dont hang out as much how old are you, i think if he already does no then thats enough for now
2006-10-22 13:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by oceanbrzze101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should walk right up to him and kiss him. I know I would like it. Lots of tounge.
2006-10-22 13:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by Daniel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
JUST GET ANOTHER GUY
imagine if u were in his gf condition
trust me, u wont get anywhere if u ll be him
get another one,
2006-10-22 13:34:39 · answer #8 · answered by claudiA^^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋