How does he feel?

Question

i thought i was over him but apparently i'm not.. i've met other guys, went out with my friends.. but all i can think of is him.. it's been 2 weeks we didnt talk and that's alot of distance for us.. he's accepted the fact we're not together anymore cause i've rejected him.. if i'll try i'll never know what it would have been with him,we were the perfect match.. but i'm affraid it's too late, any advice to make him come back?

i broke up with him, he was starting to change.. but he was still inlove with me..it was just his ego

i know it was a childish thing to do, but ever since the breakup he hasen't called or anything,maybe he doesnt care for me anymore..thats y i'm affraid of calling him..the breakup was hard on him at the beginning, now i dont know anything exept that he passed by my house to take his sweater back..(but i wasnt at home) ..

does this mean he still wanted me and wanted to talk or just to get his sweater back cause he's moved on?

Answer 1

Please be assured that if you both have true feelings for each other, he thinks about you as much as you think of him, guaranteed.

There is a reason why you two are not together and so what you need is time and space. Remember the nature of a man is not to always reveal how he feels, yet they feel because they are human. For now, don't worry so much. What we practice becomes habit and when you focus on other things beside him, you'll stop pining for him. We all do it and it won't be the last time you face this situation.

All in all if you're meant to be together it will happen. If you decide to contact him, keep your message unemotional and basic, like, "Hey wanted to say what's up and hope you are okay." That lets him know you're open to future conversations and that you won't get all emotional on him. If he doesn't respond, don't take it personal. He may have another agenda and he may be doing you a favor. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Sometimes we have to tell ourselves it's okay to throw one back into the water. You'll be fine.

As for the sweater, unless it was one that his mother gave him or it cost him $100, he probably wanted to use this as an excuse to talk to you. At any cost, don't get too emotional, men really don't like that unless someone died or something....

Answer 2

It could mean allot of things. If you still love and want him back, keep trying to talk to him, he's hurt. You mentioned a change in him, that might be something else to talk about with him.

Answer 3

hey just call him and talk to him,you know just see how hes doing because you do care right and see how the conversation goes.you broke up with him so hes been rejected and if hes like me he will not make an effort to get you back even if he wants too

Answer 4

just lay low for a while - send his sweater back to him thru a trusted friend, no message - just wait about a 2 more weeks, keep busy with friends and family and see what happens ...

Answer 5

be honest about ur feelings for him

maybe if u can't get him out of ur mind, it's cuz he's supposed to be there ya know, let him know u really miss him i'm sure if he still has feelings he'll come around if not get a clue and get over him

good luck babe

Answer 6

I think you should invite im over and you both should talk things over with and iron out your differences. Both of you are still in love.

Answer 7

hes giving you distance you asked for so if you wanna talk then call him suck it up and dont be childish.tell him you want him show him( with the old in out)i fhe doesnt bite then youre screwed

Answer 8

well give it a week or two for every 6 months u guys were together...

Answer 9

Don't know him well enough to know. Try talking to him... you lose nothing in trying. Do nothing and you DEFINITELY won't get him back.

Answer 10

CAll him what can it hurt and then you will know forsure instead of wondering