Family & Relationships - 21 October 2006

i' ve had a boyfriend for almost 9 months now he's a good guy. my parents like him, but they dont know he's my boyfriend. they think he's just one of my friends. how do i tell them we're a couple. what if they dont want me dating him?
he's a good person and so am i but i dont know how tot tell them.
please help

2006-10-21 08:12:36 · 18 answers · asked by the girl next door 2 in Singles & Dating

what 1st attracted you to your crush or boy/girlfriend? their looks? if so, what part of their looks. personality? boys AND girls can respond to this one.

2006-10-21 08:12:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Tell me what unavailable has to offer in a relationship.

2006-10-21 08:12:25 · 22 answers · asked by precious girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I want a six pack what is the best way to get that as soon as possible?

2006-10-21 08:12:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Most people don’t like my boyfriend because he not as cute as most they make me feel bad for being with him. How do I ignore that?

2006-10-21 08:11:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-21 08:11:32 · 12 answers · asked by ~beautiful~ 1 in Singles & Dating

Its been 4 weeks since we split up. It was him who left me. I have come to peace with the break-up and moving past it. Sometimes it still hurts, but I'm trying hard to think about myself. I left some items at his place. The most important is my jewelery. I want this stuff back. I don't want to get back with him. I don't want to talk to him even. I just want my stuff back before he throws it in the garbage or something - and then I will be really P.O.ed. It been 1 1/2 week since the last time we had contact. And the last time was not so pleasant. (I acted like some needy, pathetic child-rather than a mature 28 yr old with everything going for her.) I realized my behaviour was irrational - but its too late now. Whats done is done. I don't want to call him because I don't want him to think I want him back. (and i assure you I DON'T) I just want my stuff back....

2006-10-21 08:11:26 · 14 answers · asked by jovy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love him to death. He broke up with me 3 times the last time being about a month ago. We got back together about 3 weeks ago he told me he knew i was the one he wanted to be with and he made a huge mistake last time. Well today i got upset because he promised me something a broke it. He got mad and the first thing he did was broke up with me. He said that he should just break up with me so i dont have to worry or cry anymore. Ive been really happy these past few weeks with him. He made it like it was all my fault that we broke up this time. I was just starting to get over him and he came back. Now im heart broken again and i dont know how to get through this again. I know i shouldnt have taken him back again but i really care about him. By the way we're both 18 so im ready for a long term realationship. Someone please tell me how to get through this again. Im so upset.

2006-10-21 08:11:16 · 11 answers · asked by Caligirl 1 in Singles & Dating

well heres my story. my bf just broke up with me a few months ago. and he hasnt talked to me in months. Yes he has been stalking me sometime and he has a gf. why is that. is it because he doesnt like me or is it because it would be awakward for him to talk to me. i still have feelings for him but its not as strong as it used to be. i would still like to be friends with him but will that ever happen. we were friends before we got together. so how do i get over him after he broke up with me.

2006-10-21 08:11:14 · 6 answers · asked by sue 1 2 in Singles & Dating

i used my quota on the yahoo system

2006-10-21 08:09:44 · 7 answers · asked by charles m 2 in Singles & Dating

I have this guy he’s sweet and kind loveable and one day we were talking he tells me a story on how he once thought he loved this girl and she told him she loved him. Later on she left him for his best friend. Than he tells me str8 he never wants to get married have kids or fall in love. But my intentions were to finish college fall in love get married and have kids. Should I give him a chance anyway or find a guy who matches with me?

2006-10-21 08:09:20 · 9 answers · asked by pittsburgs finest Patience 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-21 08:08:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do you get it through
someones head that you don't want to do anything with
them? My bf is always saying that he's horny and i
hate it because I know I'm never going to do anything
with him. He doesn't know I'm not either. I know he's
not the one I want to do something with. I don't even
really like him as a bf anymore. what do I do?

2006-10-21 08:08:54 · 21 answers · asked by blood_suckin_goth_freak 2 in Singles & Dating

to retaliate when wives scorn, argue, mock, and deny sex to them? And why would a husband stay in a situation like that? What kind of fantasy-revenge-sublimation do they do? Why don't they tell their wives and get a divorce? Are children a sufficient reason? Or are there other reasons they continue to endure a difficult situation? Do they plan to do something about it someday? I'm most interested in hearing from men with personal experience in tough marriages.

2006-10-21 08:08:32 · 10 answers · asked by David W 6 in Marriage & Divorce

of getting pregnant when on birth control and taking it faithfully and using a condom every single damn time, no excuses? i'm just so terrified of getting pregnant. i mean i luv my bf but not that much yet an i already have one baby to worry about.

2006-10-21 08:07:44 · 6 answers · asked by 1 Hott Mami 4 in Singles & Dating

when you ask a girl what do you look for more looks or personality, they will always say personality but the sweet guy who treats her with respect and lover her for her never gets the girl usually becomes a so called bestfriend instead of boyfriend, and the great looking guy who's a dick to her becomes the boyfriend. Sadly looks do matter to all girls dont you agree?

2006-10-21 08:06:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-21 08:06:47 · 6 answers · asked by up to my neck 1 in Friends

What is your opinion on reconciling with the person you have divorced? Have you done it and has it worked second time around?

2006-10-21 08:06:43 · 24 answers · asked by cathedralkat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years. Im 20 he is 26. When we first got together we had sex all the time. We couldnt get enough of eachother. We did it any where and everywhere. For the past year he doesnt seem to ever want to have sex. If I didnt beg him we would never do it. Half the time he says no because hes tired. I end up feeling like he doesnt want me and he feels pressured. I always thought the guy was one who was really sexual. When we do have sex its the same old possition every time. I even try watching porn with him and he doesnt want to. I dress up for him and it does nothing for him. My self esteem is shot. I dont know what to do anymore. We dont have any kids and he acts like we have 10 and no time to do it. I know he isnt cheating on me because he doesnt really have a chance to. I just dont know what to do please help!!!

2006-10-21 08:06:00 · 7 answers · asked by angel l 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have all these costumes that i baught yesturday, but i dont know which one to be. they are all cute but i cant make up my mind. im 14 and trick-or-treating and hanging out with my friends.


~minnie mouse
~cat
~playboy bunny
~saloon girl (least favorite)
~french maid

(support me with a good answer if you want 10 extra points!)

2006-10-21 08:05:42 · 6 answers · asked by snickelfritz 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend Tyler is cheating on me...he comes home each night drunk, and i read his email and they are usually about porn, or from a random girl. He also abuses me, he bit my arm, and broke my leg two years ago. I have known him since preschool...I still want to be with him. I love him anyway.....i love him so much...how do i break up with him? I dont wanna! should I?

2006-10-21 08:05:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

now lets say hypothetically we were in a relationship and i said do you know what would really turn me on? and you replied what? and i said i dont know if i can say this on here but lets say i want you to take my dna(if you know what i mean) and put it on your tooth brush how would you react? would you say you only live once? would you be disgusted? how would you react to my odd request? i want to thank you all in advance for you time and thought you are all so lovely i wish i could give you all a great big hug

2006-10-21 08:04:55 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

juss wondering, say if a girl wears a skirt that is tight around her as-s. would u prefer her to wear regular panties(those triangular ones) and be able to see the lines of the panties through the skirt. or u prefer that she wears a thong, or g-string so u cant' see anything

2006-10-21 08:03:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 08:03:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-21 08:03:24 · 20 answers · asked by WIDE OUTxx0017 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 08:02:51 · 5 answers · asked by sadgreeneyes3 3 in Friends

Someone that i just met is already trying to start trouble between me and my bestfriend. This whole week that person, J, has been telling me that my bestfriend likes them, and they know that it is a sensitive spot for me because even though their my best friend, i do like them very much. Well, finally i was able to talk to my bestfriend and she told me that it was all a lie and explained to me everything. So, really J just twisted the words around to get us to stop talking to each other. Now, J and my bestfriend planned to go out tonight and we're trying to think of the perfect trick to play on J. We're bestfriends and for someone to try to do that have to get a wake up call. Any suggestions?

2006-10-21 08:02:20 · 12 answers · asked by kstringler 1 in Friends

i am in love with my cousin...which is ok in themiddle eastern countires, i am 20 yrs old and she is about 15. we used to love each other so much in the past as kids...then we where splitted for a long time...i saw her once in the past few weeks..i had a really huge crush on her and i cant speak with her because of shyness....i looked for her profile in hi5 and added her and she accepted that.. i asked for her email and she gave it...but what i am affraid of shall i tell her that i have a crush on her....on email..i am ultra shy guy i am single since 4 years that is because i am very shy..shall i wait for a while untill she is mature enough to tell her that...or shall i start with her a relationship...but i am afraid to be blocked that would be sensitive...u know because of family issues,,,,,i dont know what to do .....please i need a good advice..

thank u guys for help...first of all almost the first priority in the middle eastern countries when u come to commitetment are relatives.....that is ok...because they have a qoute " the people we know is better than the people we dont".... i am not planing on dating her..no i just want to tell her i have a crush on u...we can date later on, when she is ready for commitment... it is ok in here to get married to cousins....i told my parents about that they were very happy and proud of that..no problem.....but the problem i am a shy guy i dont have the gutts to tell her that...i dont care about dating for the time being..u know emails and phone calls and family renioun are enough.....i am hazzitating shall i send her an email and tell her that and if she is interested wecould carry on...if sheisnot then it will be between us and nothing has happened>>>>>>>>>thanx

2006-10-21 08:01:02 · 9 answers · asked by max h 3 in Singles & Dating

even if they will make fun of me

2006-10-21 08:00:16 · 17 answers · asked by Lillbean 1 in Singles & Dating

told my 22 yr old grandson he had to move out he hasn,t worked in 2 yrs and now is stealing from us

2006-10-21 08:00:00 · 10 answers · asked by siskawood 1 in Family