i am in love with my cousin...which is ok in themiddle eastern countires, i am 20 yrs old and she is about 15. we used to love each other so much in the past as kids...then we where splitted for a long time...i saw her once in the past few weeks..i had a really huge crush on her and i cant speak with her because of shyness....i looked for her profile in hi5 and added her and she accepted that.. i asked for her email and she gave it...but what i am affraid of shall i tell her that i have a crush on her....on email..i am ultra shy guy i am single since 4 years that is because i am very shy..shall i wait for a while untill she is mature enough to tell her that...or shall i start with her a relationship...but i am afraid to be blocked that would be sensitive...u know because of family issues,,,,,i dont know what to do .....please i need a good advice..
thank u guys for help...first of all almost the first priority in the middle eastern countries when u come to commitetment are relatives.....that is ok...because they have a qoute " the people we know is better than the people we dont".... i am not planing on dating her..no i just want to tell her i have a crush on u...we can date later on, when she is ready for commitment... it is ok in here to get married to cousins....i told my parents about that they were very happy and proud of that..no problem.....but the problem i am a shy guy i dont have the gutts to tell her that...i dont care about dating for the time being..u know emails and phone calls and family renioun are enough.....i am hazzitating shall i send her an email and tell her that and if she is interested wecould carry on...if sheisnot then it will be between us and nothing has happened>>>>>>>>>thanx
2006-10-21 08:01:02 · 9 answers · asked by max h 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have family in the East....I know where you are coming from...One of my cousins wants to date me.....but it isn't OK with my family(I live in the middle of the U.S.A.)...... But I say just tell her...find a time and/or place to say it to her face so she can see and hear how sincere you really are....Follow your heart....
2006-10-21 08:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by Sporty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey! u know what?! i also fall in love with my cousin! in fact he's 12 years older than me! Go for it! Tell her...! Don't be shy cuz girls really don't interest with shy guy. show to her that you really love her,,by telling her not in an email or phone! ask her for a date, i mean romantic date. than tell her bout what u feelin right now..ask her to be with you..! and don't forget to give her something special! maybe a kiss..or something she really wants for a very long time..! good luck dude!
2006-10-21 15:14:15 · answer #2 · answered by bad boy_ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look first of all i think i know where u are from second of all dont be shy and wait untill she is more mature but u can wit and someone else could marry her..... look u can tell her parents and aftere a couple pf years u could tell her
2006-10-21 15:10:02 · answer #3 · answered by il kindome di cielo₪ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should go for it!im also shy i would just get it over and done with.and i hope it works out for u both in the future.x
2006-10-21 15:09:21 · answer #4 · answered by lucyhot21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to be really shy.....it was really awful....i'm still kinda shy but not as much. i'm better online than in person. so it'll take alot to be outgoing. but like you told me...go for it! easy to say but hard to do. your not the only one thats shy in the world. remember that.
2006-10-23 11:13:57 · answer #5 · answered by blueangel182006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, do not mistake a family love for a romantic love. I'm inlove with my brother, but NOT romantically.
2006-10-21 15:07:49 · answer #6 · answered by Kathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah hook up with your cousins brother.. no wonder there is so much crazy people .. didnt you guys know this brings defects into genes??.. took hook up with family members...is sick against Gods Rules...and makes your gene pool more capable of diseases and mental retardation and mental illness...oh my god some people r so dum.
2006-10-21 15:10:57 · answer #7 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAVE YALL HEARD OF INCEST???
THATS THE MOST RIDICULUS THING EVER THIS IS YOUR COUSIN FOR GOD SAKES YOUR COUSIN
I DONT CARE IF U WERE IN EGP
2006-10-21 15:11:02 · answer #8 · answered by SWEET S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it. If she doesn't want to be w/you though, go find you another chick....i mean, she is ur cousin
2006-10-21 15:04:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋