how do you get it through
someones head that you don't want to do anything with
them? My bf is always saying that he's horny and i
hate it because I know I'm never going to do anything
with him. He doesn't know I'm not either. I know he's
not the one I want to do something with. I don't even
really like him as a bf anymore. what do I do?
2006-10-21 08:08:54 · 21 answers · asked by blood_suckin_goth_freak 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
break it off!!! go for a nice, clean break. good luck!
2006-10-21 08:11:39 · answer #1 · answered by girliegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK your 14 and you are saying you BF wants to have sex and you don't. Hay your 14. Any ways if you don't want to say NO. And maybe you should think about getting out of the relationship if you dont think hes the one. I think you will have many more relationships in the future and you will find the right one when the time comes. I know a lot of adults are going to say you have so much time to think about marriage or the right guy to have sex with for the first time. And you get upset with them because you think they dont understand or they are just saying that. Well they do understand and you will find the right guy for both marriage and your first time at sex. But since you are 14 i think you should concentrate on school. You will have many years to think about guys.
2006-10-21 08:18:49 · answer #2 · answered by Nan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby girl your to young for that, dump him. When your ready you will know when its time Im not going to say wate untail your married but u should give it a try im a young woman and I wish I could start all over dont be like me and outher woman be smart .
and when you know its time take a Aids test togeather. thats what i did and im still going strong But I had sex when I was 18 and I was Knot ready but I did it for him and I cried for three months so take your time and enjoy being young, talk to a parent about it or a family friend ok boo.
2006-10-21 08:46:15 · answer #3 · answered by Skiy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...
My advice is to just leave him. If he continually presses this onto you and doesn't respect your personal space, then leave him. He isn't the one for you and you said yourself, you don't even like him anymore as a boyfriend. Plus, you are 14 so you have many more years of dating and relationships to find that one person that you want to be with for quite a long time.
But whatever you do, I will respect it and best of wishes?
2006-10-21 08:13:11 · answer #4 · answered by endlessly_waiting_in_the_rain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, i think u might have made a mistake i made when i was yr age im 21 now.You prob would be better off as friends.You should tell him how u feel about that.or u could try walking away and ignoring him i did. Good luck!
2006-10-21 08:17:22 · answer #5 · answered by lucyhot21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to take a hike - in no uncertain terms. You seem to be fairly together for 14 so bite the bullet and send him packing.
2006-10-21 08:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be having sex at 14 y/o. If he keeps it up let your parents know what's going on and maybe they'd have to talk with his parents. He's a turd and he isn't going to get better. Just make sure you are never alone with him b/c he sounds suspect baby sister. Just be careful.
2006-10-21 08:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still in a relationship with this person...it's just a waste of time and if he won't respect your decision there's no sense it adding extra stress when you seem to have already come up with your answer?
That's what I would do.
2006-10-21 08:13:51 · answer #8 · answered by luckyko86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your not ready and maybe you should break up and he should get with someone who's ready for that. Then you can find someone who feels the same way you do or a least understands where your coming from.
2006-10-21 08:12:04 · answer #9 · answered by melyssa star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm you break up with him?... think of it in the simplest terms possible dont think of all the outcomes and what will happen and if youll be alone or not. just end it, tell him u lost it for him and that u arent ready to do anything with him sexual.
2006-10-21 08:11:44 · answer #10 · answered by XitachiX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be straight forward and tell him. You have no other choice unless you want things to remain the same.
2006-10-21 08:13:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋