ok,my mom left my dad a few wks after i was born because he had cheated and wanted this girl to live with my mom and him to be the "babysitter" while my mom worked fulltime! he threatened to take me away from her and send me to his mom even. after 7 years, no word no child support no nothing, he pops up asking to get to know me only because his new love demanded he make amends with his one child, me.its been 11 yrs now, and i only just found out the truth of why i never grew up with a dad. i want to confront about all this and let him know how upsetting it is all to me, and how even now a days hes not exactly a "father figure" in my life, more just an older man who influences me because were related by blood. i need him to know that i know the truth and it hurts me still to this day and i want him to feel like **** for it and pay for it! i am only wondering, to i bring it up before or afte thanksgiving?!? or should i at all?
2006-10-20
12:10:21
·
7 answers
·
asked by
Anonymous
in
Family