I love my husband ...I know ya m8ight think im a cheater...but GOD>>>I FEEL SO MUCH FOR BOTH...fyi...I havent cheated....just need a lil input
2006-10-20 12:09:56 · 15 answers · asked by dreamon1star 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You never know the person you sleep with until much later.
You love your husband and truly know him.
You are attracted to this other guy, but remember this is JUST that part of him he presents to attract women. The REAL him comes out later. You know the one that farts and goes to the bathroom in front of you (NOT SO DREAMY NOW IS IT).
You love your husband and you THINK you love what you THINK this other guy is.
So you are gambling a sure thing of your husband for what's behind guy number one. Maybe its a good trade or maybe he's a big loser with a nice image.
Whatever, you do don't play with both that was what dating was about.
2006-10-20 12:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am willing to bet that what you feel for your husband is real love...only possible when two people share lots of time together and become a unit. On the other hand what you are probably feeling for the other guy is attraction and infatuation. Not love.
Becareful....don't mess up a good thing that you already have just because you are daydreaming about the new guy.
2006-10-20 13:09:17 · answer #2 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No there is not any thank you to be in love with 2 men on a similar time. yet you could have emotions for this different guy. have you ever concept approximately which might do extra for you? you have been with your husband a protracted time top? Why might you waist that on yet another guy? have you ever tried speaking to our husband with regard to the hugs and kisses and the way that is replaced? needless to say if he's cheating or has cheated you will possibly desire to pass away him. i might say communicate tohim first as i did interior the 1st paragraph yet whilst that doesn't paintings... Your daugheter will go through yet I advise you won't be able to be unhappy the two.
2016-10-15 06:03:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it isn't possible to love two men at the same time unless one is an adult and the other is your child. That's because these are two different kinds of love. By definition of what love is, you can only have the love intensity for one person at a time or it's just infatuation.
2006-10-20 13:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to think I loved two men at the same time, I was just confused. Turns out, I didn't love either of them.
2006-10-20 13:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by heybitches 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not feeling fulfilled by husband maybe you might be lusting after another man, I woudl try and focus on husband or get divorced before you do cheat..sorry thisis not the answer you wanted.
2006-10-20 12:15:34 · answer #6 · answered by Christine 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be careful you might be mistaking lust for LOVE. no one but you can tell you how you feel inside, but I say be true to the one that has been true to you. If you have been married for any length of time, chances are that your Husband has stood beside you even when he might not have wanted to.
2006-10-20 12:17:29 · answer #7 · answered by Richard W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is. We love different people for different reasons, and as individuals. The problem is how you deal with it and what decisions you make because of it. Be careful.
2006-10-20 13:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by just_me3575 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone thinks the grass is always greener but it never is and by the time they realize that its to late so be sure and respectful whatever you chose.
2006-10-20 12:15:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Something is missing in your marriage find out what it is and work on it before you do something really stupid.
2006-10-20 13:18:40 · answer #10 · answered by nicole 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋