OK, so I have been with my fiance for four years now, an I totally love him, but I can't help but think about other guys. I love sex and I catch myself having bad thoughts about guys that I don't even know but think they're attractive? Am I a bad person?
2006-10-20 12:07:23 · 10 answers · asked by Ali 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Actions speak loud than words and thoughts.
Thoughts and feelings aren't right or wrong.
Its only actions that can be judged.
I would say your naughty in a good way.
2006-10-20 12:11:22 · answer #1 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no girl its totally normal i asked a question about this yesterday and you wouldnt believe the responses as long as you dont act on these thoughts there is no harm done believe me i think of other guys all the time i know this is bad but sometimes i think of other guys while having sex with my husband just to make the sex better
2006-10-20 20:47:33 · answer #2 · answered by *Heather* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not unnatural to have feelings and thoughts...we're only human, and I think EVERYONE has fantasies. If you are totally in love with your man, the only thing that matters are your actions and your behaviors. If these fantasies interfere with you wanting to be with your man, then I think there is a problem, if not, I think you're just having normal fantasies. Hey, men look at porn, and women fantasize...it's human nature.
2006-10-20 20:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by missapparition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not a "bad" person...you just don't have any right to have a fiance. Having a fiance means being monogomous...If you can't do that then you need to let your boyfriend go and allow him to find someone who can be.
2006-10-21 03:33:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound normal and healthy to me. I think you should go out with Dublin Boy tho. He's answered all questions with will you go out with me? The poor boy is desperate and maybe he can keep you more satisfied than your fiance
2006-10-20 19:27:16 · answer #5 · answered by jewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are thinking about cheating you are going to be a cheater,ma be you need to break it off be for you cheat and it want hurt him as bad,but it's going to hurt him,but don't have a b/f while you are wanting all these guys someone ends up hurt,get it out of your system and then find a b/f when you are able to be happy with one.
2006-10-20 19:12:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you are perfectly normal, having thoughts of a sexual nature about members of the opposite sex is fine as long as you don't act on it.........that's infidelity and it's not fine.
2006-10-20 19:13:38 · answer #7 · answered by ffiondove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not at all.. maybe some porn would do you good.. it isn't bad to look at other people and if you deny yourself you'll look more, just accept it.
2006-10-20 19:14:35 · answer #8 · answered by kissed_by_a_nymph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are real bad, you wanna go out sometime
2006-10-20 19:12:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO you are human.........we all have fiancee....noting wrong with it ....
2006-10-20 20:22:06 · answer #10 · answered by Jazzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋