I need help. There is this giy named Juan at my school. He is so sexy and smart. All the girls like him and he is on the football team. Today in geometry class we took a test and my friends kept bugging me for answers. But all of a sudden he called me and said he likes me out of the blue. Out of all the girls around him he likes me. I was flattered at first . But i dont know if he really does. At lunch one of my bestfriends went and asked him if he really liked me and she said that he said im his girl and he said that i was cute. I saw him smiling after she walked away. But i like him a lot. he has the cuttest smile and when i look into his eyes i get this really warm feeling inside and i like it. But does he really mean it . How will i know with out going up to him and making a fool of myself? Please help.
2006-10-20 12:15:43 · 17 answers · asked by Bree Lynne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why just not get to know the person. and then decide if you want him to like you all you are going by is his looks and his football persona. take it easy and let a friendship begin
2006-10-20 12:18:20 · answer #1 · answered by Christine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all grow some B*lls. Honestly. This is highschool, and this isnt going to matter 5 years from now, but just write him a note or something and tell him how you feel. If he really does like you then for him to let you know hes serious. If not then dont play like that because it can cause problems. Im still in highschool, but i lived my whole 4 years in one. Good luck and relax.
2006-10-20 19:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by *Bella Reveuse* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute...during a test when all your friends are trying to get answers from you, he suddenly announces that he likes you? Maybe he just likes your cute answers.
But your best friend asking him if he meant it is lame. It's okay to ask him out if you're up to it. It's 2006. Mayberry rules no longer apply. Or you can wait and fret. At some point, though, you are going to have to be willing to make a fool out of yourself, or you'll end up missing out on a lot. Plus, life being what it is, you'll still end up making a fool out of yourself one way or another.
2006-10-20 19:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by answersBeta2.1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give a subtle clue for him to come over to where you are. If he does, then that's a good sign. Let him make the first moves. Just because he's sexy and smart and on the team doesn't mean that you are not good enough for him. Have confidence in yourself and he will find that appealing.
Confidence, not arrogance.
2006-10-20 19:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to know why he is doing that it is because he feels so much pressure from the other girls that he has noticed that you have not fawned over him even though you have secretly but I would go out with him and tell him that you think he is great but you really want to find out who he is and do not sleep with him I dont care if your thinking you are out of your mind dont. If he really cares and talks to you in spite of no SEX he will tell the truth one way or the other.
2006-10-20 19:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by postal_marg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well like they say words are nice but actions speak louder than words sometimes..so just wait to see if he acts up on what he says and by this i mean if he calls you just to get to know you and asks you out and the primery thing is yo know if he's interested in you and not interested in playing or just to kid around with his pals..wait to see how he reacts around you and then it will all fit in if it's meant to be.. LUCK!
2006-10-20 19:54:57 · answer #6 · answered by schat_n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can talk to some one without making a fool of yourself. just make an excuse to talk about any thing home work Ect. if he likes you he will let you know in a round about way. or maybe directly.
2006-10-20 19:22:58 · answer #7 · answered by Richard W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can sit back and wait or you can maybe give him a call after school so that you won't feel like you look like a fool
Have some self-confidence!!!! It could be YOU he likes!!!!!!!!
2006-10-20 19:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
with u asking him u r not making a fool of yourself the only way u would do that is if u dont ask.
2006-10-20 19:22:59 · answer #9 · answered by randy b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probaly does mean it.the closer you get to him you'll find out but he may be cute but is he for you? do you teo have anything in common? get to know him and see if he really means it with out asking or he might be trying to make someone jealous get his history like his friends and such
2006-10-20 19:22:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋